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你在工作中比别人出色，你更快地获得了提升和加薪，你得到和CEO共进午餐的机会……凭什么好事都你一个人得了？被同事妒忌的滋味其实不好受，这个时候你该怎么办呢？ If you're the object of another's jealousy: 如果你是被妒忌的对象： * Save the brag-athon for after work. 吹嘘留到下班后 "It's often not the closer relationships with bosses, the promotions, or the raises that create hostility," explains Tina Lewis Rowe, a career coach in Denver. "It's the way the employee with good fortune handles it.” 来自丹佛市的职业教练Tina Lewis Rowe说：“导致敌意的往往不是和老板关系紧密、晋升或加薪，而是交了好运的员工处理的方式。” Don't name-drop the CEO you had lunch with, mention the conference you're attending or talk excitedly about your new job or salary with less-fortunate coworkers. "Even a saint would have trouble smiling and being happy for someone in those circumstances," she says. 当着不那么幸运的同事们的面，不要说自己和CEO共进午餐，不要提你参加的会议、或者兴奋地谈论你的新工作或薪水。她说：“即便圣人也很难在这种情况下为别人微笑或高兴。” * Don't apologize. 不要赔不是 It's natural to feel humbled by a wonderful career development, but those who didn't get the raise don't want to hear how undeserving you feel, said Lewis Rowe. Chances are, they might agree. | 
