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无论你在哪儿找到了这样一个特别的地方，记住要拥有一个，并且要经常去看看，让它如圣地般生机盎然。这样的地方让我们更接近我们的伙伴，家人，还有朋友。在生活繁忙，感情紧张的时候，这样一个特别的地方能帮我们增加感情。一同就寝能给你安定，偷偷地去一次私密酒店能点燃激情，有一个香气宜人的浴室能重点火花，要不就是幸福的第二春。那么，你的秘密小窝在哪呢？ Once, when a relationship I loved but struggled with was ending, I felt convinced that if only he and I went to the spot of one of our first dates (a place we had returned to throughout our relationship and where we always felt calm and connected), we would somehow figure everything out. Of course, I didn't suggest we go there, and so we didn't, and the relationship came to its natural end. Looking back I don't think the place could have breathed new life into anything at the time, anyway, but what's striking to me is that, for a moment, I was certain that a place had the power to do so. Such is the power of a couple's secret, private space. When we're growing up, forts made of blankets and secret clubhouses provide space for friendships and crushes to develop. And if you've seen the movie Up!, you perhaps have some thoughts on how one's childhood clubhouse can - with a little care, fresh paint, and the right partner-in-crime - create space for adult love to bloom. | 
