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我们能让这世界变得更美好么？这句话本身就是一个错误的假设，认为这世界不好。反过来，我们应该说世界就是这样的，没有什么绝对的好与不好。这是我们选择的生活方式，也是我们喜欢的生活方式。换个角度看待事物：接受并试着理解。接受这世界，你会快乐。 “There is nothing either good or bad,but thinking makes it so.—William Shakespeare, “Hamlet One of the greatest sources of unhappiness, in my experience, is the difficulty we have in accepting things as they are. Without judgment, without wishing for otherwise. When we see something we don't like, we wish it could be different — we cry out for something better. That may be human nature, or perhaps it's something that'singrained（根深蒂固的）in our culture. The root of the unhappiness isn't necessarily that we want things to be different, however: it's that we decided we didn’t like it in the first place. We've judged it as bad, rather than saying, "It's not bad or good, it just is." An example: In my recent post, A Beautiful Method to Find Peace of Mind, quite a few commenters thought my outlook was negative,pessimistic（悲观的）,orfatalistic（宿命论的）… because I said you should expect people to mess up, expect things to go differently than you planned, and that you should embrace that. | 
