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The best thing about bad dates is that we walk away with a great story, and little doubt that theperpetrator（作恶之人）is not the person for us. I was thinking about some of the common errors made on first dates. I came up with 10 common mistakes that could kill the chances for a second date: Arriving late Even five minutes of lateness isinexcusable（不可宽恕的）on the first date. People are already anxious on theseexcursions（远足，短途旅行）,so making someone wait and think more about everything is pretty rude. Seems like the trend in NYC is to be late for things regularly. On one date, I texted the girl and told her I was running late. She said she was too. We ended up just having the date 1/2 hour later than planned and technically no one was late because we were both 1/2 hour late together. Wardrobe malfunction（服装故障，走光） Make sure youcater（投合，迎合）what you wear to what you're doing. I try not to make a girl walk too much if she's in heels. Also, I've seen girls wear pearls and a nice blouse totrashy（碎屑的，没用的）outdoor drinking events, or heels to sporting events. Talking politics or religion Staying away from debatable content is a good idea the first time out. It's fun to argue with your significant other, but I think it's important to reach a comfort level first. If you try toproselytize（使改宗）someone, or battle them over a hot topic like abortion, you may reach a point of no return. | 
