How to be charming 如何变得魅力四射
<p>随身英语<span word="How">How</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="charming">charming</span> 如何变得魅力四射 </p><p>为什么有的人招人喜欢，人见人爱？为什么有的人不管走到哪里都可以广交朋友？本集《随身英语》教你如何与人建立融洽的关系及社交礼仪中友谊的“黄金法则”。</p><p>课文内容 <span word="Vocabulary">Vocabulary</span>: <span word="social">social</span> <span word="etiquette">etiquette</span> 词汇: 社交礼仪</p><p><span word="Life">Life</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="fair">fair</span>. <span word="Some">Some</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="blessed">blessed</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ability">ability</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="effortlessly">effortlessly</span> <span word="charm">charm</span> <span word="anyone">anyone</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="meet">meet</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="person">person</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="strike">strike</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="complete">complete</span> <span word="stranger">stranger</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="end">end</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="business">business</span> <span word="lead">lead</span>. <span word="How">How</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="it">it</span>?</p><p><span word="Well">Well</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="magical">magical</span> <span word="power">power</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="fact">fact</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="number">number</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="factors">factors</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="work">work</span>. <span word="So">So</span>, <span word="can">can</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="develop">develop</span> <span word="superhuman">superhuman</span> <span word="charm">charm</span>? <span word="The">The</span> <span word="answer">answer</span> <span word="is">is</span>: <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="large">large</span> <span word="extent">extent</span>, <span word="yes">yes</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span>.</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="first">first</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="news">news</span>. <span word="Scientists">Scientists</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="initially">initially</span> <span word="judge">judge</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="based">based</span> <span word="purely">purely</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="physical">physical</span> <span word="appearance">appearance</span>. <span word="With">With</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="fleeting">fleeting</span> <span word="glimpse">glimpse</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="face">face</span>, <span word="people">people</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="snap">snap</span> <span word="judgements">judgements</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="likeability">likeability</span>, <span word="trustworthiness">trustworthiness</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="confidence">confidence</span>, <span word="according">according</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="Alexander">Alexander</span> <span word="Todorov">Todorov</span>, <span word="professor">professor</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="psychology">psychology</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="Princeton">Princeton</span> <span word="University">University</span>.</p><p><span word="How">How</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="counteract">counteract</span> <span word="this">this</span>? <span word="There">There</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="incredibly">incredibly</span> <span word="simple">simple</span> <span word="tool">tool</span>: <span word="your">your</span> <span word="smile">smile</span>. <span word="Todorov">Todorov</span> <span word="told">told</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="BBC">BBC</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="perceive">perceive</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="smiling">smiling</span> <span word="face">face</span> <span word="as">as</span> “<span word="more">more</span> <span word="trustworthy">trustworthy</span>, <span word="warmer">warmer</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="sociable">sociable</span>”. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="sounds">sounds</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="sense">sense</span>, <span word="doesn">doesn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="it">it</span>? <span word="Smile">Smile</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="smile">smile</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="you">you</span>.</p><p><span word="What">What</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="tricks">tricks</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="sleeves">sleeves</span>? <span word="Former">Former</span> <span word="FBI">FBI</span> <span word="agent">agent</span> <span word="Jack">Jack</span> <span word="Schafer">Schafer</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="trained">trained</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="influence">influence</span> <span word="people">people</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="told">told</span> <span word="BBC">BBC</span> <span word="Capital">Capital</span>: “<span word="Our">Our</span> <span word="brains">brains</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="surveying">surveying</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="environment">environment</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="foe">foe</span> <span word="signals">signals</span>.” <span word="Three">Three</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="signal">signal</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="threat">threat</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="to">to</span>: <span word="raise">raise</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="eyebrows">eyebrows</span> <span word="quickly">quickly</span>, <span word="tilt">tilt</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="heads">heads</span> <span word="slightly">slightly</span>, <span word="and">and</span>, <span word="once">once</span> <span word="again">again</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="smile">smile</span>.</p>
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