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<p>有句老话，叫“男怕选错行，女怕选错郎”。</p><p><span word="There">There</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="old">old</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="that">that</span> "<span word="men">men</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="afraid">afraid</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="choosing">choosing</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="line">line</span>, <span word="women">women</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="afraid">afraid</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="choosing">choosing</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="man">man</span>".</p><p>当然，这是从前。现在不怕了。选错行可以改行，选错郎也可以离婚么！不过，改行毕竟费事，离婚也很麻烦。能不改不离，最好。</p><p><span word="Of">Of</span> <span word="course">course</span>, <span word="this">this</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="past">past</span>. <span word="Now">Now</span> <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="afraid">afraid</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="business">business</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="choose">choose</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="line">line</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="divorce">divorce</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="choose">choose</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="Lang">Lang</span>! <span word="However">However</span>, <span word="after">after</span> <span word="all">all</span>, <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="difficult">difficult</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="careers">careers</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="divorce">divorce</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="troublesome">troublesome</span>. <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="change">change</span>.</p><p>何况还有改不了离不掉的。就算改得了离得掉，那损失也无法追回，那影响也无法消除。夫妻双方是会相互影响的。康德甚至说一对夫妻相处日久，就连相貌都会变得接近起来，让人觉得对象对象，当真“一对就像”(其实是他们的言行举止神态表情都有了共同的情调)。面如此，而况乎心？遇人不淑，那可真是后患无穷，岂是含糊得的？</p><p><span word="What">What</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="more">more</span>, <span word="there">there</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="can">can</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="changed">changed</span>. <span word="Even">Even</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="rid">rid</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="recover">recover</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="loss">loss</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="eliminate">eliminate</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="influence">influence</span>. <span word="Husband">Husband</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="wife">wife</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="influence">influence</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span>. <span word="Kant">Kant</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="couple">couple</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="along">along</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="looks">looks</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="close">close</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="object">object</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="really">really</span> "<span word="a">a</span> <span word="pair">pair</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="like">like</span>" (<span word="in">in</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, <span word="their">their</span> <span word="expressions">expressions</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="expressions">expressions</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="mood">mood</span>). <span word="Face">Face</span> <span word="so">so</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="mind">mind</span>? <span word="If">If</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="nice">nice</span>, <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="real">real</span> <span word="afterthought">afterthought</span>. <span word="Isn">Isn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="vague">vague</span>?</p>
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