“三”的智慧
<p>我时常听到有人沾沾自喜地说自己“三生有幸”时，就纳闷：这人只有今生，哪来“三生”呢？随着时间的流逝，我才慢慢地感觉到“三”的学问的确不小。譬如，“三思而后行”，“举一反三”，“三人行，则必有我师”等短语，其中的“三”字，既概括了社会生活现象、人生经验，或丰富的人生哲理，也蕴藏着许多智慧，的确耐人寻味，引人思考。?</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="hear">hear</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="complacently">complacently</span> <span word="says">says</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> "<span word="three">three</span> <span word="lucky">lucky</span>", <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="wonder">wonder</span>: <span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="person">person</span>, <span word="where">where</span> <span word="is">is</span> "<span word="three">three</span> <span word="lucky">lucky</span>"? <span word="With">With</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="passage">passage</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="slowly">slowly</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="knowledge">knowledge</span> <span word="of">of</span> "<span word="three">three</span>" <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="small">small</span>. <span word="For">For</span> <span word="example">example</span>, <span word="phrases">phrases</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="as">as</span> "<span word="think">think</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="act">act</span>", "<span word="draw">draw</span> <span word="inferences">inferences</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="example">example</span>", "<span word="three">three</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="act">act</span>, <span word="then">then</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="must">must</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="teacher">teacher</span>", <span word="among">among</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="word">word</span> "<span word="three">three</span>" <span word="not">not</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="generalizes">generalizes</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="phenomenon">phenomenon</span>, <span word="life">life</span> <span word="experience">experience</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="rich">rich</span> <span word="philosophy">philosophy</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="life">life</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="contains">contains</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="wisdom">wisdom</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="intriguing">intriguing</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="thought">thought</span>-<span word="provoking">provoking</span>. ?</p><p>三国时，刘备为成就大业，“三顾茅庐”，恳切地三请诸葛卧龙出山，演绎出“三顾频烦天下计，两朝开济老臣心”的佳话，奠定了天下三国鼎立的格局。这“三”里面的韵味告诉我们：“精诚所至，金石为开”。要想获得别人的帮助和支持，就必须用诚意待别人，哪怕一再被对方拒绝。?</p><p><span word="During">During</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Three">Three</span> <span word="Kingdoms">Kingdoms</span> <span word="period">period</span>, <span word="Liu">Liu</span> <span word="Bei">Bei</span> <span word="sincerely">sincerely</span> <span word="invited">invited</span> <span word="Zhuge">Zhuge</span> <span word="Wolong">Wolong</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="mountain">mountain</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="achieve">achieve</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="achievements">achievements</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="deduced">deduced</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="that">that</span> "<span word="three">three</span> <span word="times">times</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="frequent">frequent</span> <span word="visits">visits</span> <span word="annoy">annoy</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="plan">plan</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="dynasties">dynasties</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Kaiji">Kaiji</span> <span word="old">old</span> <span word="minister">minister</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="heart">heart</span>", <span word="which">which</span> <span word="laid">laid</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="pattern">pattern</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Three">Three</span> <span word="Kingdoms">Kingdoms</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="charm">charm</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> "<span word="three">three</span>" <span word="tells">tells</span> <span word="us">us</span>: "<span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="honest">honest</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="open">open</span>". <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="support">support</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="others">others</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="must">must</span> <span word="treat">treat</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="sincerity">sincerity</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="refuse">refuse</span> <span word="again">again</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="again">again</span>. ?</p>
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