无需内疚 单身也是一种选择
<p><span word="As">As</span> <span word="Gretchen">Gretchen</span> <span word="Weiners">Weiners</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="Mean">Mean</span> <span word="Girls">Girls</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="probably">probably</span> <span word="say">say</span>: "<span word="Oh">Oh</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="god">god</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="they">they</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="single">single</span>." <span word="The">The</span> <span word="question">question</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="intrusive">intrusive</span>, <span word="personal">personal</span>, <span word="and">and</span>, <span word="above">above</span> <span word="all">all</span>, <span word="none">none</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="damn">damn</span> <span word="business">business</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="reason">reason</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="anyway">anyway</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="case">case</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="simply">simply</span> <span word="answer">answer</span> <span word="with">with</span>: "<span word="I">I</span> <span word="choose">choose</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span>." <span word="I">I</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="sexologist">sexologist</span> <span word="Dr">Dr</span>. <span word="Nikki">Nikki</span> <span word="Goldstein">Goldstein</span>, <span word="author">author</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Single">Single</span> <span word="But">But</span> <span word="Dating">Dating</span>: <span word="A">A</span> <span word="Field">Field</span> <span word="Guide">Guide</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="Dating">Dating</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Digital">Digital</span> <span word="Age">Age</span>, <span word="what">what</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="response">response</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="question">question</span> <span word="is">is</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="dished">dished</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="four">four</span> <span word="words">words</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="skipping">skipping</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="beat">beat</span>.</p><p>正如《贱女孩》电影中的格雷琴·维娜可能会说："我的天哪，你可不能直接问别人为什么他们还是单身！"一样，这个问题具有侵犯性、是私人问题，而且根本就不关你的事啊。但由于某些原因，很多人都觉得有必要问为什么，在这种情况下，你可能会回道："我就是想单身啊。"我咨询了《保持单身但不拒绝约会：数字时代约会的现场指南》（<span word="Single">Single</span> <span word="But">But</span> <span word="Dating">Dating</span>: <span word="A">A</span> <span word="Field">Field</span> <span word="Guide">Guide</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="Dating">Dating</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Digital">Digital</span> <span word="Age">Age</span>）一书的作者兼性学专家尼克·戈德斯坦医生，向她询问该问题的最佳回答，而她想都不想就说了一句话。</p><p><span word="Being">Being</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="choice">choice</span>, <span word="plain">plain</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="simple">simple</span>.</p><p>单身是种选择，平淡而又简单。</p>
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