情侣间最容易犯的错误
<p><span word="First">First</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="smitten">smitten</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="doubt">doubt</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="honeymoon">honeymoon</span> <span word="period">period</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="end">end</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="yourselves">yourselves</span> <span word="sitting">sitting</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="front">front</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="couples">couples</span>' <span word="therapist">therapist</span>. <span word="Where">Where</span> <span word="did">did</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span>? <span word="The">The</span> <span word="longer">longer</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="stay">stay</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="someone">someone</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="assumptions">assumptions</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="make">make</span>: "<span word="Well">Well</span>, <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="now">now</span>" <span word="and">and</span> "<span word="They">They</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="point">point</span>." <span word="Though">Though</span> <span word="that">that</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="true">true</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="degree">degree</span>, <span word="he">he</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="psychic">psychic</span> (<span word="unless">unless</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span>) <span word="and">and</span> <span word="communication">communication</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="vital">vital</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="stage">stage</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="stop">stop</span> <span word="sharing">sharing</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="concerns">concerns</span>, <span word="needs">needs</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="partners">partners</span>, <span word="that">that</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="fall">fall</span> <span word="off">off</span>.</p><p>刚开始，你和另一半如胶似漆，你甚至觉得你们的蜜月期永远不会结束，但在你意识到之前，你们俩就已经坐在夫妻治疗师面前了。到底是哪里出错了呢？与某人待在一起的时间越久，你就越容易假设："我相信，到现在为止，他/她肯定知道我有多爱他/她"或是"在一起这么久了，他/她应该知道我的感受、我的想法了。"虽然在某种程度上，这么想是对的，但他/她又不会通灵（除非他们会的话），而恋情的任何阶段，沟通都至关重要。当我们不再与另一半分享我们的担忧、需要和感受时，事情就开始变质了。</p>
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