你不该觉得离婚是件丢人的事
<p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="Ellen">Ellen</span> <span word="Myers">Myers</span> <span word="finalised">finalised</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="divorce">divorce</span> <span word="in">in</span> 2013 <span word="she">she</span> <span word="felt">felt</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="overwhelming">overwhelming</span> <span word="sense">sense</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="freedom">freedom</span> - <span word="and">and</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="deep">deep</span> <span word="sense">sense</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="shame">shame</span>. "<span word="It">It</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="weird">weird</span> <span word="time">time</span>," <span word="she">she</span> <span word="recalls">recalls</span>. "<span word="On">On</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="hand">hand</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="wanted">wanted</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="shout">shout</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="rooftops">rooftops</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="anyone">anyone</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span>."</p><p>当艾伦·迈尔斯于2013年离婚时，她感到特别自由--但也觉得特别丢人。"当时特别尴尬，"她回忆道。"一方面，我想将这件事大声告诉每个人，但同时，我又不想让任何人知道。"</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="Colorado">Colorado</span> <span word="mom">mom</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="married">married</span> <span word="young">young</span>, <span word="at">at</span> <span word="just">just</span> 18, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="away">away</span>. <span word="Like">Like</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="divorced">divorced</span> <span word="people">people</span>, <span word="she">she</span> <span word="felt">felt</span> <span word="embarrassed">embarrassed</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="hadn">hadn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="last">last</span>. <span word="She">She</span> <span word="became">became</span> <span word="convinced">convinced</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="silently">silently</span> <span word="thinking">thinking</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="told">told</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="work">work</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="worse">worse</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="slights">slights</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="dealt">dealt</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="public">public</span> - <span word="glances">glances</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="empty">empty</span> <span word="ring">ring</span> <span word="finger">finger</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lack">lack</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="invitations">invitations</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="former">former</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>, <span word="and">and</span>, <span word="most">most</span> <span word="troublingly">troublingly</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="pointed">pointed</span> <span word="remark">remark</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="clergy">clergy</span> <span word="member">member</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="church">church</span>, <span word="who">who</span> <span word="read">read</span> <span word="Myers">Myers</span> <span word="discouraging">discouraging</span> <span word="stats">stats</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="divorce">divorce</span>, <span word="then">then</span> <span word="suggested">suggested</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="continue">continue</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="endure">endure</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="abusive">abusive</span> <span word="situation">situation</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="kids">kids</span>' <span word="sake">sake</span>. <span word="She">She</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="faced">faced</span> <span word="rejection">rejection</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="potential">potential</span> <span word="landlord">landlord</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="disclosing">disclosing</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="mother">mother</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="relied">relied</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="child">child</span> <span word="support">support</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="income">income</span>.</p><p>这位来自科罗拉多州的母亲结婚结得特别早，18岁结婚后就立马生了孩子。和许多离婚的人一样，她为不能维持自己的婚姻而感到难为情。她相信她的朋友和家人肯定都在心里默默地想着：我告诉你这不会有用的。但更难受的是接受大众的目光--人们看着她没戴戒指的手、不再受到以前朋友的邀请，最令人不安的是，她所在教堂的神职人员对她说了句尖刻的话，他给迈尔斯读了有关离婚孩童的使人气馁的数据，然后建议她应该为了孩子继续忍受被虐的情况。在她告诉一位潜在房东自己是单亲母亲，收入来源于孩童抚养时，她甚至遭到了租房拒绝。</p>
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