想成为更健谈的人? 5个有科学依据的方法来帮你!
<p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="key">key</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="conversationalist">conversationalist</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="attention">attention</span>-<span word="giver">giver</span> <span word="rather">rather</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="attention">attention</span>-<span word="getter">getter</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="begin">begin</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="concentrate">concentrate</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="speaking">speaking</span> <span word="with">with</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="gratifying">gratifying</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="needs">needs</span> <span word="instead">instead</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="own">own</span>.</p><p>想成为侃侃而谈的人，关键是要成为一个给予关注的人，而不是获得关注的人。这意味着你要把更多的精力集中在和你讲话的人身上，满足他们的需求而不是自己的需求。</p><p>1.<span word="Use">Use</span> <span word="People">People</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="Names">Names</span> <span word="More">More</span></p><p>1.多说对方的名字</p><p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="tune">tune</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="name">name</span>. <span word="Dale">Dale</span> <span word="Carnegie">Carnegie</span>, <span word="an">an</span> <span word="author">author</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="public">public</span> <span word="speaking">speaking</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="interpersonal">interpersonal</span> <span word="skills">skills</span> <span word="books">books</span>, <span word="previously">previously</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="names">names</span> <span word="are">are</span> "<span word="the">the</span> <span word="sweetest">sweetest</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="sound">sound</span>" <span word="to">to</span> <span word="us">us</span>.</p><p>当别人说出我们的名字时，我们会更可能和他们保持在一个频道上。公共演讲和人际关系类书籍作者戴尔·卡耐基曾说过，对人们而言，自己的名字是“最甜美、最重要的声音”。</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="use">use</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="advantage">advantage</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="asking">asking</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="name">name</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="dropping">dropping</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="name">name</span> <span word="occasionally">occasionally</span> <span word="throughout">throughout</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="later">later</span> <span word="on">on</span>.</p><p>在交谈中，你可以充分利用这一点，先询问对方的名字，然后在后面的谈话中偶尔提到它。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="ability">ability</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="remember">remember</span> <span word="someone">someone</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="name">name</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="linked">linked</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="more">more</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="buy">buy</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="seen">seen</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="compliment">compliment</span>.</p>
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