又到年会，遇到老板该说点啥？跟不熟的同事说啥最安全？
<p>又到了年底公司开年会、部门搞聚餐的时间。一想到又要碰到严厉的老板、合不来的同事、和略显尴尬的陌生人，真想自己静一静。不喜欢被动社交？来看看这几个谈话小技巧，教你如何得体应对各种场合。</p><p>英国萨里郡商务指导丽莎-约翰逊说，不要总觉得公司聚会单调乏味，如果你提前准备好应对之道，这其实能成为一次有益的职场社交机会。</p><p>她向每日邮报网站女性版的读者们分享了在聚会上与老板、陌生人和其他参与者交流的技巧，我们也来学一学。</p><p><span word="THE">THE</span> <span word="SILENT">SILENT</span> <span word="COMPETITION">COMPETITION</span></p><p>沉默的竞争</p><p><span word="Do">Do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="competitive">competitive</span> <span word="colleague">colleague</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="usually">usually</span> <span word="keeps">keeps</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="arm">arm</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="length">length</span>?</p><p>你是否有个和你有竞争关系，平时很疏远你的同事？</p><p><span word="Asking">Asking</span> <span word="engaging">engaging</span> <span word="questions">questions</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="far">far</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="approach">approach</span> <span word="here">here</span>. <span word="How">How</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="asking">asking</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="decided">decided</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="attend">attend</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="they">they</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="forward">forward</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="week">week</span>?</p><p>问一些有关参加聚会的问题最好不过了。比如，问问对方为什么决定参加？或者那一周有什么期待？</p><p><span word="Keep">Keep</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="short">short</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="sweet">sweet</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="fall">fall</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="trap">trap</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="much">much</span>. <span word="Sometimes">Sometimes</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="wise">wise</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="mirror">mirror</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="person">person</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="pace">pace</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span>.</p><p>对话要简洁明了，千万不要说太多。谈话节奏跟着对方来是很聪明的做法。</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="met">met</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="silence">silence</span>, <span word="then">then</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="least">least</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="tried">tried</span>. <span word="Never">Never</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="awkward">awkward</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="silence">silence</span>, <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="two">two</span>-<span word="way">way</span> <span word="street">street</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="helps">helps</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="points">points</span> <span word="prepared">prepared</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="case">case</span>.</p>
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