meili 发表于 2022-10-18 21:37:22

为什么聪慧成功的女性会约会困难?

<p><span word="Jenna">Jenna</span> <span word="Birch">Birch</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="book">book</span> <span word="sat">sat</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="desk">desk</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="months">months</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="open">open</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Love">Love</span> <span word="Gap">Gap</span>: <span word="A">A</span> <span word="Radical">Radical</span> <span word="Plan">Plan</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="Win">Win</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="Life">Life</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Love">Love</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="smart">smart</span>, <span word="successful">successful</span> <span word="independent">independent</span> <span word="women">women</span> - <span word="the">the</span> <span word="type">type</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="profess">profess</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="want">want</span> - <span word="have">have</span> <span word="trouble">trouble</span> <span word="finding">finding</span> <span word="steady">steady</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span>.</p><p>在我打开珍娜·伯奇的新书之前,它已经在我的桌上躺了好几个月了。<span word="The">The</span> <span word="Love">Love</span> <span word="Gap">Gap</span>: <span word="A">A</span> <span word="Radical">Radical</span> <span word="Plan">Plan</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="Win">Win</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="Life">Life</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Love">Love</span>这本书写的是为什么聪慧、成功、独立的女性很难找到稳定的恋情--就是男人声称希望得到的那种女人。</p><p><span word="For">For</span> <span word="years">years</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="girlfriends">girlfriends</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="told">told</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="date">date</span>: <span word="You">You</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="for">for</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="Or">Or</span>: <span word="You">You</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="great">great</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="ready">ready</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>. <span word="We">We</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="heard">heard</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="refrains">refrains</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="decades">decades</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="breakup">breakup</span> <span word="talks">talks</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> 20<span word="s">s</span>, 30<span word="s">s</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="their">their</span> 40<span word="s">s</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="open">open</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="book">book</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="felt">felt</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="close">close</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="home">home</span>.</p><p>多年来,约会对象都对我和我的单身姐妹如是说:你就是我要找的一切,但我却感受不到。或者:你很好,但我还没准备好开始一段恋情。几十年来,20多岁、30多岁、甚至40多岁的男人都会在分手谈话中说同样的话,我们听太多遍了。我不想翻开这本书、怕扎心。</p>
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