这几种有毒的“恋爱关系”套路很深，你可一定要注意了
<p>听说“煤气灯效应”（<span word="the">the</span> <span word="Gaslight">Gaslight</span> <span word="Effect">Effect</span>）已经成了描述一种有毒情感关系的新名词……</p><p>它是怎么来的，到底指的是哪种情况呢？今天，双语君（微信<span word="ID">ID</span>：<span word="Chinadaily">Chinadaily</span>_<span word="Mobile">Mobile</span>）就给你好好科普下。</p><p>这一切还得从一部经典影片说起……</p><p>1944年经典黑色悬疑片《煤气灯下》（<span word="Gaslight">Gaslight</span>）改编自帕特里克·汉密尔顿1938年创作的剧本，首次将“煤气灯效应”（<span word="the">the</span> <span word="Gaslight">Gaslight</span> <span word="Effect">Effect</span>）的概念引入人们的视线。</p><p>电影由查尔斯·博耶（<span word="Charles">Charles</span> <span word="Boyer">Boyer</span>）和英格丽·褒曼（<span word="Ingrid">Ingrid</span> <span word="Bergman">Bergman</span>）主演，疑云密布，环环相扣，讲述了丈夫为了谋取妻子的财产，千方百计把妻子逼疯的故事。</p><p>《煤气灯下》（<span word="Gaslight">Gaslight</span>）剧照</p><p>剧中，妻子看到了微弱的煤气灯光，丈夫却一直否认，说她看错了。妻子单纯地爱着丈夫，对其深信不疑，久而久之就确信自己真的哪里出了毛病。直到遇到了一位警察，警察说他也看到了微弱的煤气灯光。</p><p>美国心理学家<span word="Robin">Robin</span> <span word="Stern">Stern</span>受到电影的启发，结合20年的临床经验，写出了轰动一时的书——《煤气灯效应：远离情感暴力和操纵狂》。</p><p><span word="US">US</span>-<span word="based">based</span> <span word="author">author</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Gaslight">Gaslight</span> <span word="Effect">Effect</span>, <span word="Dr">Dr</span> <span word="Robin">Robin</span> <span word="Stern">Stern</span>, <span word="outlined">outlined</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="insidious">insidious</span> <span word="nature">nature</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="gaslighting">gaslighting</span>, <span word="writing">writing</span>: '<span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="form">form</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="emotional">emotional</span> <span word="abuse">abuse</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="manipulation">manipulation</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="difficult">difficult</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="recognise">recognise</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="harder">harder</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="break">break</span> <span word="free">free</span> <span word="from">from</span>.'</p>
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