懂得听人讲话的人，都知道这9点
<p>1. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="use">use</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="body">body</span> <span word="language">language</span></p><p>1.他们使用好的肢体语言</p><p><span word="Make">Make</span> <span word="direct">direct</span> <span word="eye">eye</span> <span word="contact">contact</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="torso">torso</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="shoulders">shoulders</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="direction">direction</span>. <span word="Give">Give</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="undivided">undivided</span> <span word="attention">attention</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="focus">focus</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="invested">invested</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="dialogue">dialogue</span>.</p><p>要有直接的眼神接触，身体正面和肩膀要面向对方，把全部注意力放在对方身上，让对方知道你聊天很投入。</p><p>2. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="watch">watch</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="nonverbal">nonverbal</span> <span word="cues">cues</span></p><p>2.他们注意非言语的暗示</p><p><span word="Pay">Pay</span> <span word="attention">attention</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="speaker">speaker</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="expressions">expressions</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="body">body</span> <span word="language">language</span>. <span word="Nonverbal">Nonverbal</span> <span word="clues">clues</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="verbal">verbal</span> <span word="ones">ones</span>.</p><p>你要注意说话人的表情和肢体语言，非言语的暗示和语言一样重要。</p><p>3. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="interrupt">interrupt</span></p><p>3.他们不会打断别人</p><p><span word="Let">Let</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="what">what</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="mind">mind</span> <span word="freely">freely</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="finish">finish</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="sentences">sentences</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="clarification">clarification</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="something">something</span>, <span word="jot">jot</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="down">down</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="pauses">pauses</span>.</p><p>让对方自由表达想法，说完他要说的，如果你真有什么重要的话需要说或者需要说明某件事，你就记下来，等对方停顿时询问。</p><p>4. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="resist">resist</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="urge">urge</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="offer">offer</span> <span word="solutions">solutions</span></p><p>4.他们不会冲动地给出解决方法</p><p><span word="Being">Being</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="active">active</span> <span word="listener">listener</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="allowing">allowing</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="emotions">emotions</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="healthy">healthy</span> <span word="way">way</span>, <span word="without">without</span> <span word="trying">trying</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="fix">fix</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="problem">problem</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="wants">wants</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hear">hear</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="opinions">opinions</span>, <span word="he">he</span>’<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="them">them</span>.</p>
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