这11种身体语言会害了你
<p><span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="say">say</span>, <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="it">it</span>.</p><p>重点不在于你说了什么，而在于你怎么说。</p><p><span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="old">old</span> <span word="clich">clich</span>é, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="true">true</span>. <span word="That">That</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="body">body</span> <span word="language">language</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="crucial">crucial</span> <span word="part">part</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="communicating">communicating</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="act">act</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="warp">warp</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="entire">entire</span> <span word="meaning">meaning</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="saying">saying</span>.</p><p>这是老生常谈，但却是一条真理。身体语言在沟通交流中是非常关键的一部分，你的身体语言甚至可以使你的话偏离本意。</p><p><span word="That">That</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="said">said</span>, <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="body">body</span> <span word="language">language</span> <span word="habits">habits</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="hardest">hardest</span> <span word="habits">habits</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="break">break</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="accustomed">accustomed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="slouching">slouching</span>, <span word="averting">averting</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="eyes">eyes</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="folding">folding</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="arms">arms</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="barely">barely</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="notice">notice</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="we">we</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="doing">doing</span>.</p><p>尽管如此，不好的身体语言习惯往往是最难改掉的恶习。我们太习惯于懒散的坐姿、说话时不直视他人，将双臂交叉抱于胸前，以至于自己都意识不到这些习惯的存在。</p><p><span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="several">several</span> <span word="body">body</span> <span word="language">language</span> <span word="mistakes">mistakes</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="tough">tough</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="ditch">ditch</span>. <span word="Still">Still</span>, <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="quit">quit</span> <span word="them">them</span>, <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="definitely">definitely</span> <span word="thank">thank</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="later">later</span>.</p><p>以下是11种很难改掉的身体语言错误。不过，如果你能改掉它们，你以后会为此而庆幸。</p>
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