如何打开一位害羞同事的心？
<p><span word="Shyness">Shyness</span>, <span word="according">according</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="Psychology">Psychology</span> <span word="Today">Today</span>, <span word="is">is</span> "<span word="the">the</span> <span word="awkwardness">awkwardness</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="apprehension">apprehension</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="approaching">approaching</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="approached">approached</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span>."</p><p>根据《今日心理学》杂志的报道，“腼腆心理”这指的是：“与他人接触、或他人与自己接触时，所感到的局促不安或恐惧感。”</p><p><span word="Shy">Shy</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="often">often</span> "<span word="desperately">desperately</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="connect">connect</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="others">others</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="can">can</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="tolerate">tolerate</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="anxiety">anxiety</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="human">human</span> <span word="interaction">interaction</span>."</p><p>害羞的人们通常“非常想要与他人打交道，但是不知道采用何种方式，或者无法忍受人际交流之间所产生的焦虑。”</p><p><span word="John">John</span> <span word="Stoker">Stoker</span>, <span word="president">president</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Dialogue">Dialogue</span> <span word="WORKS">WORKS</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="author">author</span> <span word="of">of</span> "<span word="Overcoming">Overcoming</span> <span word="Fake">Fake</span> <span word="Talk">Talk</span>," <span word="says">says</span> <span word="that">that</span> 40% <span word="or">or</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="population">population</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="classify">classify</span> <span word="as">as</span> "<span word="shy">shy</span>."</p><p><span word="Dialogue">Dialogue</span> <span word="WORKS">WORKS</span>网站的董事长，同时也是《战胜谎言》一书的作者<span word="John">John</span> <span word="Stoker">Stoker</span>表示，如今有40%或以上的人都能归类到“害羞”的人群。</p><p><span word="That">That</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="there">there</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="chance">chance</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="deal">deal</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="shy">shy</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="office">office</span>, <span word="networking">networking</span> <span word="events">events</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="client">client</span> <span word="meetings">meetings</span> – <span word="and">and</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="behoove">behoove</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="approach">approach</span> <span word="them">them</span>.</p><p>这就意味着，你很有可能在职场、社交活动、或者客户会面的时候遇到害羞的人们，而你很有必要了解如何与他们相处。</p>
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