日本男士最不愿听妻子说的十句抱怨
<p><span word="Is">Is</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="worse">worse</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="called">called</span> <span word="lazy">lazy</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="smelly">smelly</span>?</p><p>被抱怨懒或是臭，哪一样更糟？</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="interactions">interactions</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="Japan">Japan</span>, <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="avoid">avoid</span> <span word="confrontations">confrontations</span> <span word="rather">rather</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="charge">charge</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="On">On</span> <span word="top">top</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="that">that</span>, <span word="mainstream">mainstream</span> <span word="attitudes">attitudes</span> <span word="generally">generally</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="are">are</span>, <span word="on">on</span> <span word="average">average</span>, <span word="more">more</span> <span word="accommodating">accommodating</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="deferential">deferential</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="men">men</span>.</p><p>在日本的人际交往中，人们通常会避免与他人发生冲突，以免让自己陷入麻烦。加之，主流观念的影响十分深远，一般来说，相比于男性，女性整体更加随和、顺从。</p><p><span word="That">That</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="mean">mean</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="married">married</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="Japan">Japan</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="all">all</span> “<span word="I">I</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="prepared">prepared</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="supper">supper</span>, <span word="Honored">Honored</span> <span word="Husband">Husband</span>,” <span word="and">and</span> “<span word="Shall">Shall</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="draw">draw</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bath">bath</span>?” <span word="though">though</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="displeasure">displeasure</span> <span word="passes">passes</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="certain">certain</span> <span word="threshold">threshold</span>, <span word="Japanese">Japanese</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="capable">capable</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="spitting">spitting</span> <span word="angry">angry</span> <span word="fire">fire</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="spouses">spouses</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="anyone">anyone</span> <span word="else">else</span>.</p><p>但这并不意味着日本人的婚后生活中每天都会上演“亲爱的老公，晚饭已经准备好了”、“需要我为你搓澡吗？”之类的桥段。当日本女性的不满情绪超过自己的底线时，她们和别人一样都会向自己的配偶发泄心中的愤怒。</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="particular">particular</span> <span word="brands">brands</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="vitriol">vitriol</span> <span word="burn">burn</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="worst">worst</span>? <span word="To">To</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="out">out</span>, <span word="Internet">Internet</span> <span word="portal">portal</span> <span word="R">R</span>25 <span word="polled">polled</span> 200 <span word="Japanese">Japanese</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ages">ages</span> <span word="of">of</span> 20 <span word="and">and</span> 39, <span word="presenting">presenting</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="list">list</span> <span word="of">of</span> 23 <span word="commonly">commonly</span> <span word="voiced">voiced</span> <span word="complaints">complaints</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="frustrated">frustrated</span> <span word="wives">wives</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="pick">pick</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ones">ones</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="hurt">hurt</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hear">hear</span>. <span word="Each">Each</span> <span word="respondent">respondent</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="top">top</span> <span word="selection">selection</span> <span word="received">received</span> <span word="three">three</span> <span word="points">points</span>, <span word="with">with</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="points">points</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="second">second</span> <span word="pick">pick</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="third">third</span>.</p>
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