囧研究：为什么青春期的友谊总难以延续？
<p><span word="Can">Can</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="remember">remember</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="seventh">seventh</span> <span word="grade">grade</span>? <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="difficulty">difficulty</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="age">age</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="short">short</span>-<span word="lived">lived</span>. <span word="Half">Half</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="last">last</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="year">year</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="friendships">friendships</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="last">last</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="predicted">predicted</span> <span word="based">based</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="demographic">demographic</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="behavioral">behavioral</span> <span word="similarities">similarities</span>, <span word="according">according</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="research">research</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="psychologist">psychologist</span> <span word="Brett">Brett</span> <span word="Laursen">Laursen</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Florida">Florida</span> <span word="Atlantic">Atlantic</span> <span word="University">University</span>.</p><p>你还记得七年级时最好的朋友是谁吗？如果你想不起来，那可能是因为那个年纪的友谊通常都难以延续。半数的友谊都不会超过一年。佛罗里达大西洋大学的心理学家布雷特·劳尔森发布的一项新研究显示，长久维系的友谊可以通过人口学统计数据和行为相似性这两方面预知。</p><p>“<span word="There">There</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="during">during</span> <span word="middle">middle</span> <span word="school">school</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="maintain">maintain</span> <span word="friendships">friendships</span>,” <span word="Laursen">Laursen</span> <span word="says">says</span>. <span word="As">As</span> <span word="kids">kids</span> <span word="move">move</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="academic">academic</span> <span word="track">track</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="another">another</span>, <span word="join">join</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="leave">leave</span> <span word="sports">sports</span> <span word="teams">teams</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="extracurricular">extracurricular</span> <span word="hobbies">hobbies</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="opportunities">opportunities</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="interact">interact</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="wax">wax</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="wane">wane</span>. <span word="Middle">Middle</span> <span word="school">school</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="growing">growing</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="autonomy">autonomy</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="allows">allows</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="chance">chance</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="pick">pick</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="invest">invest</span>—<span word="or">or</span> <span word="not">not</span>—<span word="in">in</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span>.</p><p>劳尔森称：“中学时期会有很多变化，而那些变化会使得人们难以维持一段友谊”。当孩子们从一个学习阶段步入另一个学习阶段，参加或离开体育队，或是有了新的课外的兴趣爱好，那么，和朋友在一起互动的机会就会此消彼长。中学也是孩子们自主能力逐渐增强的时期，孩子们有机会自己选择朋友，或是决定是否要在这些关系上进行“投资”。</p>
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