孩子更亲近他妈妈 怎么办？
<p><span word="My">My</span> 18 <span word="month">month</span> <span word="old">old</span> <span word="son">son</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="slight">slight</span> <span word="preference">preference</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="mother">mother</span>. <span word="How">How</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="win">win</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="favor">favor</span>?</p><p>我18个月大的儿子喜欢他妈妈多一点，我要怎么做才能赢得他的喜爱？</p><p>获得216好评的答案@<span word="Marc">Marc</span> <span word="Bodnick">Bodnick</span></p><p><span word="That">That</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="totally">totally</span> <span word="normal">normal</span>. <span word="My">My</span> <span word="recommendation">recommendation</span>:</p><p>这很正常。我的建议是：</p><p><span word="Be">Be</span> <span word="chill">chill</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> (<span word="your">your</span> <span word="wife">wife</span>; <span word="his">his</span> <span word="mom">mom</span>) <span word="played">played</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="bigger">bigger</span> <span word="role">role</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="did">did</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="early">early</span> <span word="life">life</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="pretty">pretty</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="screwed">screwed</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="expect">expect</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="playing">playing</span> <span word="field">field</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="years">years</span>.</p><p>冷静点。这位女性（你的妻子，他的妈妈）在他早年的生活中扮演的角色比你重要得多，所以你几乎是在钻牛角尖，即使你想在最开始的几年作为游戏场也不会让他更喜欢你。</p><p><span word="As">As</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="rule">rule</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="pretty">pretty</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="mother">mother</span> <span word="whenever">whenever</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="wants">wants</span>; <span word="that">that</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="build">build</span> <span word="trust">trust</span>.</p><p>一般来说，只要他想，你就应该让他和他的妈妈在一起，这是建立信任的最佳方式。</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="him">him</span>, <span word="do">do</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="taking">taking</span> <span word="care">care</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="him">him</span> -- <span word="feeding">feeding</span> <span word="him">him</span>, <span word="changing">changing</span> <span word="him">him</span>, <span word="putting">putting</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="sleep">sleep</span>, <span word="etc">etc</span>. <span word="Get">Get</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="trust">trust</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="competent">competent</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="confident">confident</span>.</p><p>当你和他在一起的时候，你就要好好照顾他——给他喂饭、给他换尿布、哄他睡觉等等，让他相信你是个称职且自信的爸爸。</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="alone">alone</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="distract">distract</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="quickly">quickly</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="thinking">thinking</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="mom">mom</span>.</p>
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