对策：内向女人相亲记如何进行？
<p><span word="Set">Set</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="boundaries">boundaries</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="along">along</span>.</p><p>在相亲时为自己设定界限。</p><p><span word="This">This</span> <span word="point">point</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="important">important</span>, <span word="first">first</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="foremost">foremost</span>. <span word="Once">Once</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="went">went</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="four">four</span> <span word="dates">dates</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="week">week</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="pushed">pushed</span> <span word="myself">myself</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="accept">accept</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="offers">offers</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="feared">feared</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="declined">declined</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="passing">passing</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="once">once</span>-<span word="in">in</span>-<span word="a">a</span>-<span word="lifetime">lifetime</span> <span word="opportunity">opportunity</span>. <span word="As">As</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="result">result</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="spent">spent</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="following">following</span> <span word="weekend">weekend</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="couch">couch</span>, <span word="exhausted">exhausted</span>, <span word="spiraling">spiraling</span> <span word="down">down</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="rabbit">rabbit</span> <span word="hole">hole</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="television">television</span> <span word="binge">binge</span>, <span word="barely">barely</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="peek">peek</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="door">door</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="delivery">delivery</span> <span word="guy">guy</span> <span word="dropped">dropped</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="take">take</span>-<span word="out">out</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="talked">talked</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="gentlemen">gentlemen</span> <span word="again">again</span>. <span word="Not">Not</span> <span word="once">once</span>.</p><p>这点是重中之重。有一次我一周相了四次亲。我迫使自己接受所有相亲对象的邀请。（因为）我担心如果拒绝，我会错失（与另一半相识的）千载难逢的机遇。结果接下来的那个周末我过得浑浑噩噩、糟糕透顶——我疲惫地躺在沙发上，刷着一部烂剧。连小哥给我送外卖过来，我也懒得去门口瞧上一眼。自那以后，我便再未同那几位先生聊过。一次都没！</p><p><span word="Don">Don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="fear">fear</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="missing">missing</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="dictate">dictate</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="schedule">schedule</span>.</p><p>不要因害怕错过而影响相亲安排。</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="date">date</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="month">month</span>, <span word="that">that</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="okay">okay</span>! <span word="If">If</span> <span word="awful">awful</span> <span word="dates">dates</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="turn">turn</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="funny">funny</span> <span word="anecdotes">anecdotes</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="dime">dime</span>, <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="catastrophic">catastrophic</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="that">that</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="okay">okay</span> <span word="too">too</span>. <span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="okay">okay</span>! <span word="Go">Go</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="date">date</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="three">three</span> <span word="months">months</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span>. <span word="Ignore">Ignore</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="mother">mother</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="hounds">hounds</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="grandchildren">grandchildren</span>.</p>
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