恋爱小贴士：初次约会的4个技巧
<p>1.<span word="Talk">Talk</span> <span word="Travel">Travel</span>, <span word="Not">Not</span> <span word="Movies">Movies</span></p><p>1.谈旅游，别谈电影</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="Richard">Richard</span> <span word="Wiseman">Wiseman</span>, <span word="less">less</span> <span word="than">than</span> 9% <span word="of">of</span> <span word="couples">couples</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="talked">talked</span> <span word="movies">movies</span> <span word="wanted">wanted</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="second">second</span> <span word="date">date</span> <span word="vs">vs</span> 18% <span word="of">of</span> <span word="couples">couples</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="talked">talked</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="travel">travel</span>.</p><p>在理查德·怀斯曼做的一项研究中，想要第二次约会的人中，双方谈论电影的不到9%，而双方谈论旅行的占了18%。</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="movies">movies</span>, <span word="less">less</span> <span word="than">than</span> 9 <span word="percent">percent</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="pairs">pairs</span> <span word="wanted">wanted</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="meet">meet</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="again">again</span>, <span word="compared">compared</span> <span word="to">to</span> 18 <span word="percent">percent</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="participants">participants</span> <span word="spoke">spoke</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="top">top</span> <span word="topic">topic</span>—<span word="travel">travel</span>… <span word="the">the</span> <span word="conversations">conversations</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="travel">travel</span> <span word="tended">tended</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="revolve">revolve</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="holidays">holidays</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="dream">dream</span> <span word="destinations">destinations</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="appear">appear</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="attractive">attractive</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="another">another</span>.</p><p>如果约会时谈论电影，那只有不到9%的约会双方会想再次见面，相比之下，如果谈论旅游，就有18%的人想要第二次约会…关于旅游的对话往往围绕着休闲的假期和梦想的旅游胜地而展开，旅游度假这个话题使人感觉良好，这个话题能让双方都互相更有吸引力。</p><p>2.<span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="Not">Not</span> <span word="Just">Just</span> <span word="What">What</span> <span word="You">You</span> <span word="Talk">Talk</span> <span word="About">About</span>, <span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="How">How</span> <span word="You">You</span> <span word="Talk">Talk</span></p><p>2.不在于你谈什么，而在于你怎么谈</p><p><span word="Add">Add</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="bounce">bounce</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ball">ball</span> <span word="back">back</span>.<span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="smooth">smooth</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="date">date</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span>.</p><p>把对方谈的话题进行补充，再把问题抛给对方，进行新一轮交流。这样才是第一次约会顺利交谈愉快聊天的方式。</p>
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