为什么分手了我还老惦记着前任？
<p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="mental">mental</span> <span word="health">health</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="expert">expert</span> <span word="Dr">Dr</span>. <span word="Jeff">Jeff</span> <span word="Gardere">Gardere</span> <span word="stop">stop</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="program">program</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="obsessing">obsessing</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="ex">ex</span>. <span word="His">His</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="program">program</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="called">called</span> <span word="Exaholics">Exaholics</span> (<span word="www">www</span>.<span word="exaholics">exaholics</span>.<span word="com">com</span>), <span word="and">and</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="online">online</span> <span word="community">community</span> <span word="designed">designed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="breakups">breakups</span>.</p><p>节目中我们请到了精神健康及关系专家杰夫·加德尔博士来跟我们谈谈如果你对前任不可自拔应该做什么。他的新计划项目名叫“前任瘾”(<span word="www">www</span>.<span word="exaholics">exaholics</span>.<span word="com">com</span>)，是一个旨在帮助人们克服分手伤痛的网络社区。</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="chat">chat</span> <span word="together">together</span>, <span word="Dr">Dr</span>. <span word="Jeff">Jeff</span> <span word="describes">describes</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="bodies">bodies</span> <span word="process">process</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="emotionally">emotionally</span>, “<span word="but">but</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="brains">brains</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="well">well</span>.” <span word="When">When</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="attachment">attachment</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="longer">longer</span> <span word="there">there</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="experience">experience</span> <span word="activity">activity</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="neurotransmitters">neurotransmitters</span> <span word="similar">similar</span> <span word="to">to</span> “<span word="withdrawal">withdrawal</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="part">part</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="addiction">addiction</span>.”</p><p>在我们的聊天中，杰夫博士描述了我们的身体是如何处理人际关系的——不仅运用了情感，“大脑也参与了处理。”当与对象的关系结束时，我们的某些神经递质会活跃起来，使我们体验到类似于“瘾君子戒毒”时的感觉。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="strength">strength</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="connections">connections</span> <span word="differs">differs</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="women">women</span>, <span word="for">for</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="surprising">surprising</span> <span word="reasons">reasons</span>. <span word="Dr">Dr</span>. <span word="Jeff">Jeff</span> <span word="admits">admits</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="oftentimes">oftentimes</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="woman">woman</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="is">is</span> “<span word="more">more</span> <span word="complex">complex</span>”, <span word="as">as</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="attractions">attractions</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="spread">spread</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="across">across</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="factors">factors</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="man">man</span>’<span word="s">s</span>. <span word="Men">Men</span> <span word="tend">tend</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="love">love</span> “<span word="deeper">deeper</span>” <span word="though">though</span>, <span word="making">making</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="harder">harder</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span> "<span word="let">let</span> <span word="go">go</span>" <span word="when">when</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="fall">fall</span> <span word="apart">apart</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="quality">quality</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="lead">lead</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="physical">physical</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="vengeful">vengeful</span> <span word="behavior">behavior</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="breakup">breakup</span>.</p>
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