西方礼仪禁忌贴士:如何有效利用图书馆
<p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="annoying">annoying</span> <span word="habit">habit</span></p><p>讨人厌的习惯</p><p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="live">live</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="world">world</span> <span word="governed">governed</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="laws">laws</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="manners">manners</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="everybody">everybody</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="experience">experience</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="bit">bit</span> <span word="nicer">nicer</span>. <span word="Unfortunately">Unfortunately</span>, <span word="some">some</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="skirt">skirt</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="niceties">niceties</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="annoying">annoying</span> <span word="habits">habits</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="jaw">jaw</span>-<span word="droppingly">droppingly</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="centered">centered</span>. <span word="Here">Here</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="personally">personally</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="bothersome">bothersome</span>. <span word="Let">Let</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="set">set</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="scene">scene</span>, <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="university">university</span>, <span word="sitting">sitting</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="library">library</span> <span word="along">along</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="hordes">hordes</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="trying">trying</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="last">last</span>-<span word="minute">minute</span> <span word="studying">studying</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="final">final</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="class">class</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="decided">decided</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="until">until</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="late">late</span>. <span word="While">While</span> <span word="trying">trying</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="cram">cram</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="information">information</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="derivatives">derivatives</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="Milton">Milton</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="hippocampus">hippocampus</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="brain">brain</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="hear">hear</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="full">full</span> <span word="volume">volume</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="end">end</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="tables">tables</span>. <span word="People">People</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="expressions">expressions</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="exasperation">exasperation</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="desperation">desperation</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="continue">continue</span> <span word="chatting">chatting</span>.</p><p>我们在世间的行为受到法律约束,但那远远不够,日常礼仪的约束才让人际交往更加和谐。不幸的是,有些人的习惯偏偏非常讨人厌,极度自我中心,常常不遵守日常礼仪。说说我自己最讨厌的行为。请跟随我进入场景/想象一个情景,你现在是大学生,和一大群同你一样的重度拖延症患者一起,在图书馆中为了期末考试“临时抱佛脚”。正当你竭尽全力地把导数,或者弥尔顿,或者关于海马体的知识塞进脑袋的时候,你听到桌子那头有人在大声说话。尽管大家都愤怒而绝望地看着那边,那群人却依旧旁若无人地聊着天。</p>
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