5种方法让你跟妈妈不再吵架
<p>1. <span word="Don">Don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="silent">silent</span> <span word="treatment">treatment</span></p><p>1.别跟她冷战</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="technique">technique</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="exert">exert</span> <span word="mental">mental</span> <span word="pressure">pressure</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="somebody">somebody</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="silent">silent</span> <span word="treatment">treatment</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="silent">silent</span> <span word="treatment">treatment</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="achieve">achieve</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="desirable">desirable</span> <span word="result">result</span>, <span word="then">then</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="mistaken">mistaken</span>. <span word="Sure">Sure</span>, <span word="your">your</span> <span word="mom">mom</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="refuse">refuse</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="interact">interact</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="well">well</span>. <span word="By">By</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="means">means</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="immediate">immediate</span> <span word="action">action</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="stop">stop</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="cold">cold</span> <span word="war">war</span>.</p><p>得到你想要的并且对某人施加心理压力的最好方法就是跟他们冷战。不过，如果你认为沉默总能帮你达到想要的结果，那你就大错特错了。当然，你妈妈也会同样拒绝跟你交流。不管用什么方法，你都应该立即采取行动，制止这场冷战。</p><p>2. <span word="Refuse">Refuse</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="hysterics">hysterics</span></p><p>2.拒绝歇斯底里</p><p><span word="There">There</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="doubt">doubt</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="hysterics">hysterics</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="extremely">extremely</span> <span word="effective">effective</span> <span word="type">type</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="manipulation">manipulation</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="girl">girl</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="cannot">cannot</span> <span word="prove">prove</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="case">case</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="shouldn">shouldn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="burst">burst</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="tears">tears</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="front">front</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="mother">mother</span>. <span word="Pull">Pull</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="together">together</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="reach">reach</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="compromise">compromise</span> <span word="against">against</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="odds">odds</span>. <span word="Every">Every</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="seemed">seemed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="losing">losing</span> <span word="control">control</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="preferred">preferred</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="shut">shut</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="wait">wait</span> <span word="until">until</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="heartache">heartache</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="fade">fade</span> <span word="away">away</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="mom">mom</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="absorb">absorb</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="negative">negative</span> <span word="emotions">emotions</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="wasn">wasn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="strong">strong</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="mature">mature</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="helped">helped</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="reduce">reduce</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="frequency">frequency</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="hysterics">hysterics</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="improved">improved</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="mother">mother</span>.</p><p>毫无疑问，歇斯底里是一种绝对有效的处理方式，但是你不是小女孩了。如果你不能证明你自己，你就不应该在你妈妈面前泪流满面。振作起来，试着排除万难达成和解。每一次在我看来我快控制不了自己情绪的时候，我宁愿闭嘴，直到我不再心痛为止。我不想妈妈被我的负面情绪所感染，觉得我不够坚强跟成熟。这帮我减少了歇斯底里的频率，还增进了我跟妈妈之间的关系。</p>
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