笑声或能开启一段新关系
<p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="laugh">laugh</span>.</p><p>想要更好地了解别人，一个好办法就是说些能让他们发笑的事。</p><p><span word="Sharing">Sharing</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="giggles">giggles</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="chuckles">chuckles</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="willing">willing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span>, <span word="without">without</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="necessarily">necessarily</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="aware">aware</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="doing">doing</span> <span word="so">so</span>, <span word="suggests">suggests</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="research">research</span>.</p><p>新研究显示，分享一些好笑的事会让人更乐意告诉别人自己的私事，甚至当他们这样做的时候，也根本不会意识到这一点。</p><p><span word="Alan">Alan</span> <span word="Gray">Gray</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="University">University</span> <span word="College">College</span> <span word="London">London</span> <span word="discovered">discovered</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="tidbit">tidbit</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="recently">recently</span> <span word="published">published</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="journal">journal</span> <span word="Human">Human</span> <span word="Nature">Nature</span>.</p><p>英国伦敦大学学院（<span word="University">University</span> <span word="College">College</span> <span word="London">London</span>）的艾伦•格雷（<span word="Alan">Alan</span> <span word="Gray">Gray</span>）在研究中发现了这一有趣的现象。最近，他的这项研究成果发表在了《人类天性》（<span word="Human">Human</span> <span word="Nature">Nature</span>）杂志上。</p><p><span word="According">According</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="Gray">Gray</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="act">act</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="verbally">verbally</span> <span word="opening">opening</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="crucial">crucial</span> <span word="building">building</span> <span word="block">block</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="helps">helps</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="form">form</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="intensify">intensify</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="bonds">bonds</span>.</p><p>格雷认为，用言语向他人敞开心扉的行为是帮助人们建立新关系，增强人与人之间社会联系的重要基本要素。</p><p><span word="Such">Such</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="disclosure">disclosure</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="highly">highly</span> <span word="sensitive">sensitive</span> <span word="nature">nature</span> — <span word="like">like</span> <span word="sharing">sharing</span> <span word="one">one</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="religious">religious</span> <span word="convictions">convictions</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="fears">fears</span> — <span word="or">or</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="superficial">superficial</span> <span word="tidbit">tidbit</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="one">one</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="favorite">favorite</span> <span word="type">type</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="food">food</span>.</p><p>自我表露的过程具有高度敏感性——好比分享宗教信仰或者害怕之物——或者只是一个流于表面的趣闻，比如最爱的食物类型。</p>
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