你在心生犹豫吗 看看婚前协议怎么谈
<p><span word="Sometimes">Sometimes</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="thick">thick</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="messy">messy</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="awkward">awkward</span> <span word="prenuptial">prenuptial</span> <span word="agreement">agreement</span> <span word="negotiation">negotiation</span>, <span word="Laura">Laura</span> <span word="A">A</span>. <span word="Wasser">Wasser</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="Los">Los</span> <span word="Angeles">Angeles</span>-<span word="based">based</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="lawyer">lawyer</span>, <span word="reminds">reminds</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="clients">clients</span>: “<span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="fender">fender</span> <span word="bender">bender</span> <span word="with">with</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="spend">spend</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="with">with</span>.” <span word="So">So</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="nice">nice</span>, <span word="for">for</span> <span word="starters">starters</span>. <span word="Wasser">Wasser</span> <span word="pushes">pushes</span> <span word="clients">clients</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="sign">sign</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="paperwork">paperwork</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="least">least</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="month">month</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="wedding">wedding</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="suggests">suggests</span> <span word="broaching">broaching</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="subject">subject</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="earlier">earlier</span>. “<span word="Sit">Sit</span> <span word="down">down</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="bottle">bottle</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="wine">wine</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="drink">drink</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="end">end</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="drunk">drunk</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="fighting">fighting</span>,” <span word="she">she</span> <span word="says">says</span>. “<span word="Bring">Bring</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="good">good</span>, <span word="not">not</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="bickering">bickering</span>.”</p><p>有时，在一场混乱而尴尬的婚前协议谈判进行到最激烈的阶段，洛杉矶的家庭事务律师劳拉·<span word="A">A</span>·瓦塞尔(<span word="Laura">Laura</span> <span word="A">A</span>. <span word="Wasser">Wasser</span>)会提醒客户：“对方不是与你发生车祸纠纷的人，而是你想要共度一生的人。”所以，首先要友善。瓦塞尔强烈建议客户在婚礼的至少一个月之前签署所有的文件，而开始讨论这个话题的时间更应早得多。“坐下来伴着一瓶上好的葡萄酒来谈，但别喝太多，免得最后喝醉了争吵起来，”她说。“在气氛愉快的时候提出这个话题，不要在发生口角的时候提。”</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="idea">idea</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="prenup">prenup</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="well">well</span>, <span word="blame">blame</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="else">else</span>: <span word="your">your</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="or">or</span>, <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="lawyers">lawyers</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="business">business</span> <span word="managers">managers</span>, <span word="your">your</span> <span word="advisers">advisers</span>. <span word="Before">Before</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="hire">hire</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lawyer">lawyer</span>, <span word="though">though</span>, <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="state">state</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="divorce">divorce</span> <span word="laws">laws</span>. “<span word="It">It</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="amazing">amazing</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="contract">contract</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> — <span word="and">and</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="contract">contract</span> — <span word="without">without</span> <span word="knowing">knowing</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="terms">terms</span>,” <span word="she">she</span> <span word="says">says</span>.</p>
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