9件被忽略的日常小事会导致婚姻危机
<p><span word="Everyone">Everyone</span> <span word="knows">knows</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="takes">takes</span> <span word="work">work</span>. <span word="That">That</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="obvious">obvious</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="huge">huge</span> <span word="misconception">misconception</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="BIG">BIG</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="derail">derail</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span>: <span word="infidelity">infidelity</span>, <span word="addiction">addiction</span>, <span word="adultery">adultery</span>, <span word="etc">etc</span>. <span word="Quite">Quite</span> <span word="often">often</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="chip">chip</span>, <span word="chip">chip</span>, <span word="chipping">chipping</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="once">once</span>-<span word="solid">solid</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="foundations">foundations</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="reality">reality</span>, <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="tiny">tiny</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="eventually">eventually</span> <span word="erode">erode</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="within">within</span> - <span word="without">without</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="realizing">realizing</span> <span word="it">it</span>! - <span word="until">until</span> <span word="years">years</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="petty">petty</span> <span word="resentments">resentments</span> <span word="finally">finally</span> <span word="explode">explode</span>. <span word="Here">Here</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="tiny">tiny</span> <span word="earthquakes">earthquakes</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="watch">watch</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="for">for</span>:</p><p>每个人都知道婚姻需要营造。这是事实。但大家都有一个误区，以为只有大事才会破坏婚姻：不忠，沉迷，等等。很多时候，是琐碎的小事削弱着你们本是牢固的关系，这些小事在你们似懂非懂的地方腐蚀掉你们的爱情，——直到很多年后，矛盾最终爆发。下面是几个你需要提防的地方：</p><p>1. <span word="Not">Not</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="talking">talking</span></p><p>1. 没有真心讨论</p><p><span word="Wake">Wake</span>-<span word="up">up</span> <span word="call">call</span>: <span word="Passing">Passing</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="hallway">hallway</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="mumbling">mumbling</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="taking">taking</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="trash">trash</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="talking">talking</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="spend">spend</span> <span word="quality">quality</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="lives">lives</span> - <span word="really">really</span>, <span word="truly">truly</span>, <span word="deeply">deeply</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="lives">lives</span>, <span word="beyond">beyond</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="small">small</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="trivialties">trivialties</span> - <span word="you">you</span> <span word="aren">aren</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="connecting">connecting</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="connecting">connecting</span>, <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="growing">growing</span> <span word="apart">apart</span>. <span word="Simple">Simple</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="that">that</span>.</p><p>起床时间：在走廊里擦肩而过，喃喃的说着该有人去倒垃圾了。如果你们不在黄金时间谈论你们的生活——真实地，真正地，深刻地，谈论你们的生活，而不是那些无聊的琐事——你们将不会交心。然后，如果你们不能交心，你们的关系会越来越疏远。就这么简单。</p>
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