为什么你应主动交代你的前任？
<p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="last">last</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hear">hear</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="mouth">mouth</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="name">name</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="ex">ex</span> -- <span word="but">but</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="ex">ex</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="signal">signal</span> <span word="romantic">romantic</span> <span word="doom">doom</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="build">build</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="solid">solid</span> <span word="foundation">foundation</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="current">current</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>.</p><p>从你的恋人口中，你最不想听到的就是前任的名字——可是，谈论前任并非总意味着你和他的恋情快要终结，相反，这能为你当下的恋情奠定坚实的基础。</p><p><span word="Experts">Experts</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="individual">individual</span> <span word="growth">growth</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="leads">leads</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="healthy">healthy</span>, <span word="stable">stable</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="begins">begins</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="heartbreaks">heartbreaks</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="ways">ways</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="turn">turn</span> <span word="past">past</span> <span word="disappointments">disappointments</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="future">future</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="successes">successes</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="share">share</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="experiences">experiences</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>.</p><p>专家告诉我们，一段良好的、稳固的恋情来自心痛和心痛后的个人成长。对你现在的恋人坦白那些心痛经历是从过去的痛苦中解脱，迈入新的成功恋情的最好的方式之一。</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="broach">broach</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="subject">subject</span>? <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="kept">kept</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="touch">touch</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="former">former</span> <span word="flames">flames</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="media">media</span> <span word="platforms">platforms</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="Facebook">Facebook</span>, <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="in">in</span>, <span word="said">said</span> <span word="Dr">Dr</span>. <span word="Linda">Linda</span> <span word="Young">Young</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="psychologist">psychologist</span> .</p><p>你要怎么开口谈论这个话题呢？心理学家，琳达·杨说，如果你与你的前任在脸书网这样的社交网络平台上还有联系，你就可以顺利的引入这一话题。</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="dredging">dredging</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="stories">stories</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="past">past</span> <span word="flames">flames</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="treacherous">treacherous</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="worth">worth</span> <span word="taking">taking</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="right">right</span>. <span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="five">five</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="ex">ex</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>.</p>
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