如何来个浪漫而成功的第一次约会?
<p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="date">date</span> <span word="falls">falls</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="categories">categories</span>: <span word="following">following</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="introduction">introduction</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="pursuing">pursuing</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="instincts">instincts</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="asking">asking</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="choosing">choosing</span>. <span word="No">No</span> <span word="matter">matter</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="approach">approach</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="taken">taken</span>, <span word="first">first</span> <span word="dates">dates</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="stressful">stressful</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="parties">parties</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="normal">normal</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="nervous">nervous</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="wants">wants</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="foot">foot</span> <span word="forward">forward</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="impression">impression</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="question">question</span> <span word="commonly">commonly</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="planning">planning</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="date">date</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="says">says</span> "<span word="I">I</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="you">you</span>" <span word="and">and</span> "<span word="I">I</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="you">you</span>". <span word="In">In</span> <span word="order">order</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="level">level</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="interest">interest</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="conveyed">conveyed</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="effort">effort</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="thought">thought</span> <span word="went">went</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="setting">setting</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="tone">tone</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="spent">spent</span> <span word="together">together</span>.</p><p>初次约会一般有两种情况,一是经人介绍,而是由于个人直觉,对自己心仪的对象提出邀约。无论是哪一种情况,第一次约会会让双方都感到颇有压力。人人都希望事情有个美好的开端,给对方留下美好的印象,所以感到些微紧张是很正常的。人们通常会问,要怎么计划这样一场约会,才能告诉对方“我喜欢你”,“我希望更多的了解你”呢?为了传达你的心意,很重要的一点是,你应该让对方知道自己为了这场初次约会进展顺利,投注了许多心思和气力。</p><p><span word="Begin">Begin</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="process">process</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="phone">phone</span> <span word="call">call</span>. <span word="As">As</span> <span word="old">old</span> <span word="school">school</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="sound">sound</span>, <span word="texts">texts</span>, <span word="tweets">tweets</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="emails">emails</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="cut">cut</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="out">out</span>. <span word="Direct">Direct</span> <span word="communication">communication</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="flow">flow</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="forth">forth</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="king">king</span>.</p><p>首先,给对方去一个电话,这虽然看起来有点老土,可是,当你想约某人出去的时候,发短信、微博或者邮件都不如电话直截了当。双向的对话和直接交流仍然是王道。</p>
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