如何在独身旅行时交朋友 谈恋爱
<p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="traveling">traveling</span> <span word="solo">solo</span>, <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="breeze">breeze</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="strike">strike</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="stranger">stranger</span>.</p><p>独自旅行时，与陌生人攀谈并不总是那么容易。</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, <span word="how">how</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="meet">meet</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="travelers">travelers</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="locals">locals</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="place">place</span>? <span word="And">And</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span> — <span word="or">or</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="more">more</span> — <span word="how">how</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="ensure">ensure</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="amid">amid</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="fun">fun</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="neglect">neglect</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="safety">safety</span> <span word="precautions">precautions</span>?</p><p>实际上，第一个问题是：你如何遇到其他单身旅行者或当地人？如果你想交个朋友——甚至谈场恋爱——你怎么确保在享乐的同时没有忽视安全防范？</p><p><span word="Before">Before</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="tactics">tactics</span>, <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="helpful">helpful</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="rewarded">rewarded</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="overcoming">overcoming</span> <span word="apprehensions">apprehensions</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="approaching">approaching</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="road">road</span>.</p><p>在我们讲述具体策略之前，知道下面这一点可能会对你有所帮助：在旅途中克服接近陌生人的恐惧很可能会给你带来回报。</p><p>“<span word="Its">Its</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="imagine">imagine</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ways">ways</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="badly">badly</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="connect">connect</span>,” <span word="said">said</span> <span word="Nicholas">Nicholas</span> <span word="Epley">Epley</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="professor">professor</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="behavioral">behavioral</span> <span word="science">science</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="University">University</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Chicago">Chicago</span> <span word="Booth">Booth</span> <span word="School">School</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Business">Business</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="reach">reach</span> <span word="out">out</span>, <span word="he">he</span> <span word="continued">continued</span>, “<span word="almost">almost</span> <span word="everybody">everybody</span> <span word="reaches">reaches</span> <span word="back">back</span>.”</p><p>“人们很容易去想像各种尴尬场面，或者认为对方不想交谈，”芝加哥大学布思商学院的行为科学教授尼古拉斯·埃普利(<span word="Nicholas">Nicholas</span> <span word="Epley">Epley</span>)说。他继续说道，但是如果你主动攀谈，“几乎所有人都会回应”。</p>
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