36个问题让你跟陌生人相爱
<p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="path">path</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="true">true</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="whole">whole</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="smoother">smoother</span>.</p><p>通往真爱的路现在更平坦了一点。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="key">key</span>? <span word="To">To</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="the">the</span> 36 <span word="questions">questions</span> <span word="below">below</span> - <span word="and">and</span> <span word="answer">answer</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>. <span word="Doing">Doing</span> <span word="this">this</span>, <span word="psychologists">psychologists</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="claimed">claimed</span>, <span word="can">can</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="absolutely">absolutely</span> <span word="anyone">anyone</span> <span word="fall">fall</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="head">head</span>-<span word="over">over</span>-<span word="heels">heels</span>.</p><p>关键方法？问某人以下36个问题——同时自己也回答这些问题。心理学家称，这样做，就绝对可以让任何人爱得神魂颠倒。</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="sounds">sounds</span> <span word="easy">easy</span>; <span word="it">it</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>'<span word="t">t</span>.</p><p>如果说听上去很容易，那么实际上可没那么简单。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="questions">questions</span> <span word="begin">begin</span> <span word="gently">gently</span> <span word="enough">enough</span>: '<span word="Would">Would</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="famous">famous</span>?'; '<span word="What">What</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="perfect">perfect</span> <span word="day">day</span>?'; <span word="Or">Or</span> '<span word="When">When</span> <span word="did">did</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="last">last</span> <span word="sing">sing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>?'</p><p>这些问题一开始很温和：“你想成名吗？”“你心中完美的一天是怎样的？”或“你上次自己一个人唱歌是什么时候？”</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="rapidly">rapidly</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="personal">personal</span>.</p><p>但是很快，问题就变得更私人。</p><p>'<span word="Do">Do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="secret">secret</span> <span word="hunch">hunch</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="die">die</span>?' <span word="and">and</span> '<span word="How">How</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="mother">mother</span>?'</p><p>“关于自己将如何死去，你有神秘的预感吗？”“你和你母亲的关系怎么样？”</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="idea">idea</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="foster">foster</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="atmosphere">atmosphere</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="mutual">mutual</span> <span word="vulnerability">vulnerability</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="intimacy">intimacy</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="romantic">romantic</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="thrives">thrives</span> <span word="on">on</span>. <span word="Albeit">Albeit</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="revealing">revealing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="deepest">deepest</span>, <span word="darkest">darkest</span> <span word="thoughts">thoughts</span> - <span word="the">the</span> <span word="sort">sort</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="usually">usually</span> <span word="takes">takes</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="months">months</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="admit">admit</span> (<span word="if">if</span> <span word="ever">ever</span>).</p>
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