测测你是否到了恋爱瓶颈期
<p><span word="There">There</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="entanglements">entanglements</span>. <span word="Read">Read</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="discover">discover</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="four">four</span> <span word="signs">signs</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="mean">mean</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="experiencing">experiencing</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="real">real</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="truly">truly</span> <span word="deserve">deserve</span> -- <span word="and">and</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="it">it</span>。</p><p>美好的恋情总会有瓶颈的时期。看看下面四个信号对比一下，测测自己是否真正处在值得的恋情之中吧-顺便看看如何化解危机。</p><p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="free">free</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span>, <span word="yet">yet</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="shortage">shortage</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="intimacy">intimacy</span>. <span word="No">No</span> <span word="fear">fear</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="doing">doing</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="taking">taking</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="drive">drive</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="away">away</span>.</p><p>恋爱指的是双方都可以随心所欲地做自己，同时又不失亲密。不用担心做自己喜欢的事或者做真实的自己会把另一半吓跑。</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>, <span word="neither">neither</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="needs">needs</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="to">to</span> "<span word="complete">complete</span>" <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="Both">Both</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="awake">awake</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span>, <span word="their">their</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="thoughts">thoughts</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="open">open</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="flow">flow</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="attention">attention</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="another">another</span>.</p><p>在恋爱中，我们不需要去迎合对方。双方都是忠于自己的感受、想法，也可以时不时流露出对对方的爱意和关注。</p><p><span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="equals">equals</span> <span word="celebrating">celebrating</span> <span word="together">together</span> <span word="rather">rather</span> <span word="than">than</span> "<span word="needing">needing</span>" <span word="something">something</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span>.</p><p>这是两个平等独立个体的组合，而绝不是从自己的需求出发相互索取。</p><p><span word="Signs">Signs</span> <span word="You">You</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="Entanglement">Entanglement</span></p><p>恋爱瓶颈期的征兆</p><p><span word="Entanglements">Entanglements</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="surface">surface</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="spend">spend</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="together">together</span>, <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="met">met</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="family">family</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="refer">refer</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> "<span word="couple">couple</span>."</p>
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