自我意识 是提高领导情商的关键
<p>“<span word="If">If</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="emotional">emotional</span> <span word="abilities">abilities</span> <span word="aren">aren</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="hand">hand</span>, <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="awareness">awareness</span>, <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="tmanage">tmanage</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="distressing">distressing</span> <span word="emotions">emotions</span>, <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="empathy">empathy</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="effective">effective</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span>, <span word="then">then</span> <span word="nmatter">nmatter</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="smart">smart</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="tget">tget</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="far">far</span>.</p><p>“如果你没有足够的情商，没有自我意识，不能克服负面情绪，没有同理心也没有良好的人际关系，那么，无论你的智商多高，你都不会取得多么大的成就。”</p><p>“<span word="IQ">IQ</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="major">major</span> <span word="factor">factor</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="deciding">deciding</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="profession">profession</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="into">into</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="once">once</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="field">field</span>, <span word="emotional">emotional</span> <span word="intelligence">intelligence</span> <span word="emerges">emerges</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="stronger">stronger</span> <span word="predictor">predictor</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="whwill">whwill</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="successful">successful</span>, <span word="because">because</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="handle">handle</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="determines">determines</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="donce">donce</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="given">given</span> <span word="job">job</span>.”</p><p>“决定你能否从事某一行业的主要因素是智商。但是，在你入行之后，决定你能否成功的更重要因素是情商。这是因为，你的工作表现取决于你如何处理工作关系，而如何处理工作关系取决于情商。”</p><p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="recent">recent</span> <span word="survey">survey</span> <span word="of">of</span> 75 <span word="members">members</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Stanford">Stanford</span> <span word="Graduate">Graduate</span> <span word="School">School</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Business">Business</span> <span word="Advisory">Advisory</span> <span word="Council">Council</span> <span word="rated">rated</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="awareness">awareness</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="capability">capability</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="leaders">leaders</span> <span word="tdevelop">tdevelop</span>. <span word="Executives">Executives</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="tknow">tknow</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="natural">natural</span> <span word="inclinations">inclinations</span> <span word="lie">lie</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="order">order</span> <span word="tboost">tboost</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="compensate">compensate</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="Self">Self</span>-<span word="awareness">awareness</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="identifying">identifying</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="idiosyncrasies">idiosyncrasies</span> — <span word="the">the</span> <span word="characteristics">characteristics</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="executives">executives</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="tbe">tbe</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="norm">norm</span>-- <span word="but">but</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="represent">represent</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="exception">exception</span>.</p>
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