你为什么还是单身？这不是一种病态
<p><span word="By">By</span> <span word="now">now</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="probably">probably</span> <span word="seen">seen</span> <span word="far">far</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="those">those</span> “<span word="why">why</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="single">single</span>” <span word="articles">articles</span>. <span word="Way">Way</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="often">often</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="authors">authors</span> <span word="treat">treat</span> <span word="singlehood">singlehood</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="disease">disease</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="needs">needs</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="cured">cured</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="did">did</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="led">led</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> (<span word="or">or</span> <span word="stay">stay</span>) <span word="sick">sick</span>. <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="made">made</span> <span word="fun">fun</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="singles">singles</span>-<span word="bashing">bashing</span> <span word="lists">lists</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="offered">offered</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="positive">positive</span> <span word="takes">takes</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Real">Real</span> <span word="Reasons">Reasons</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="Living">Living</span> <span word="Single">Single</span>.</p><p>到目前为止，你可能已经看过太多的“为什么你单身”的文章。在很多时候，作者们对于单身是作为一种需要被治愈的疾病，并且他们告诉你你做错了什么而导致这种病态。我常取笑那些单身人士并提供一些积极的建议给仍就过着单身生活的人士。</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="addition">addition</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="disease">disease</span>-<span word="mentality">mentality</span>, <span word="there">there</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="else">else</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="troubling">troubling</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="articles">articles</span> – <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="almost">almost</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="opinions">opinions</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="outside">outside</span> <span word="observer">observer</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="rarely">rarely</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="lives">lives</span>.</p><p>除了病态的心态，还有其他因素是那些文章的困扰。他们几乎都是一些外界的观察者的观点。他们很少询问单身人士他们对于自己的单身生活是如何想的。</p><p><span word="Happily">Happily</span>, <span word="that">that</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="changed">changed</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="typology">typology</span> <span word="offered">offered</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Polish">Polish</span> <span word="sociologist">sociologist</span> <span word="Julita">Julita</span> <span word="Czernecka">Czernecka</span>, <span word="author">author</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Single">Single</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="City">City</span>. <span word="She">She</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="select">select</span> <span word="group">group</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Polish">Polish</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="people">people</span> – 30 <span word="men">men</span> <span word="and">and</span> 30 <span word="women">women</span> – <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="lives">lives</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="interviewed">interviewed</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="representative">representative</span> <span word="sample">sample</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Polish">Polish</span> <span word="singles">singles</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="results">results</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="suggestive">suggestive</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="definitive">definitive</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="provide">provide</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="alternative">alternative</span>, <span word="though">though</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="offer">offer</span> <span word="nothing">nothing</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="opinion">opinion</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="single">single</span>.</p>
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