告别幼稚！10大信号你已经长大成熟了
<p><span word="Maturity">Maturity</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="state">state</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="individual">individual</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="position">position</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="realize">realize</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="happening">happening</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="him">him</span>/<span word="her">her</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="understand">understand</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="rationale">rationale</span> <span word="behind">behind</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="happenings">happenings</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="elated">elated</span> <span word="nor">nor</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="depressed">depressed</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="final">final</span> <span word="results">results</span>. <span word="Thus">Thus</span> <span word="he">he</span>/<span word="she">she</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="position">position</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="absorb">absorb</span> <span word="pressures">pressures</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="remain">remain</span> <span word="unperturbed">unperturbed</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="situations">situations</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="him">him</span>/<span word="her">her</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="realize">realize</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="matured">matured</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="following">following</span> <span word="signs">signs</span>:</p><p>成熟是一种状态，当你突然意识到周围发生的一切，能够理解这些事情背后的缘由，不会因结果得意洋洋抑或一蹶不振，你就成熟了。你已经能够化解压力，不被周围的环境所干扰。看看下面的信号判断一下自己成熟没有吧：</p><p>1. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="listen">listen</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="less">less</span></p><p>多听少说</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="realize">realize</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="human">human</span> <span word="beings">beings</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="built">built</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hear">hear</span> <span word="more">more</span> (<span word="because">because</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="ears">ears</span>) <span word="and">and</span> <span word="speak">speak</span> <span word="less">less</span> (<span word="we">we</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="mouth">mouth</span>/<span word="tongue">tongue</span>); <span word="we">we</span> <span word="gain">gain</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="information">information</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="whatever">whatever</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="speak">speak</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="based">based</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="substantial">substantial</span> <span word="reasoning">reasoning</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="provide">provide</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="glimpse">glimpse</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="thinking">thinking</span> <span word="individual">individual</span>/<span word="rational">rational</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="audience">audience</span>. <span word="Thus">Thus</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="shall">shall</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="perceived">perceived</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="seriously">seriously</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="turn">turn</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="add">add</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="confidence">confidence</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="sign">sign</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="becoming">becoming</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="matured">matured</span> <span word="individual">individual</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="before">before</span>.</p><p>当我们意识到作为人，我们需要多听（因为有两个耳朵）少说（只有一张嘴/一根舌头），我们就能获得更多的信息，说出的话也能基于靠谱的推断，这会让听众觉得这个人很有思想和逻辑性。这样你就会被认为是个更靠谱正经的人，同时还能增加自己的自信。这可以当成是你和以前相比变得成熟的第一个标志。</p>
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