记录：初为人父90天
<p><span word="Every">Every</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="hard">hard</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="they">they</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="supposed">supposed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span>, <span word="aren">aren</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="they">they</span>? <span word="And">And</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="days">days</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="amazing">amazing</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="be">be</span>, <span word="too">too</span>.</p><p><span word="Day">Day</span> 1: <span word="Buckle">Buckle</span> <span word="up">up</span>! <span word="The">The</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="child">child</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="birth">birth</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="wild">wild</span> <span word="ride">ride</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="features">features</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bit">bit</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="everything">everything</span>: <span word="tension">tension</span>, <span word="anticipation">anticipation</span>, <span word="sleep">sleep</span> <span word="deprivation">deprivation</span>, <span word="delirious">delirious</span> <span word="joy">joy</span>, <span word="friends">friends</span>, <span word="family">family</span>, <span word="in">in</span>-<span word="laws">laws</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="sketchy">sketchy</span> <span word="hospital">hospital</span> <span word="food">food</span>. <span word="There">There</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="moment">moment</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="compares">compares</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="holding">holding</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="baby">baby</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="time">time</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="relieved">relieved</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="overjoyed">overjoyed</span>, <span word="yet">yet</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="arrival">arrival</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="massive">massive</span> <span word="responsibility">responsibility</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="truly">truly</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="adult">adult</span> <span word="now">now</span>. <span word="Try">Try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="cool">cool</span>, <span word="calm">calm</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="supportive">supportive</span> <span word="throughout">throughout</span>.</p><p><span word="Day">Day</span> 2: <span word="Unless">Unless</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="firefighter">firefighter</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="used">used</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="interrupted">interrupted</span> <span word="sleep">sleep</span>. <span word="Agree">Agree</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="early">early</span>-<span word="morning">morning</span> <span word="stretch">stretch</span>: <span word="You">You</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="awake">awake</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="work">work</span>, <span word="alone">alone</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="baby">baby</span>, <span word="watching">watching</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="sunrise">sunrise</span> -- <span word="and">and</span> <span word="watching">watching</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="watch">watch</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="sunrise">sunrise</span>. <span word="Getting">Getting</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="fall">fall</span> <span word="asleep">asleep</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="arms">arms</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="dad">dad</span> <span word="skill">skill</span> <span word="sine">sine</span> <span word="qua">qua</span> <span word="non">non</span>.</p><p><span word="Day">Day</span> 3: <span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="meals">meals</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="eaten">eaten</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="shifts">shifts</span>, <span word="amid">amid</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="plaintive">plaintive</span>, <span word="desperate">desperate</span> <span word="screams">screams</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="newborn">newborn</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="understand">understand</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="importance">importance</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="rituals">rituals</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="dinner">dinner</span>-<span word="table">table</span> <span word="chitchat">chitchat</span> (<span word="sharing">sharing</span> <span word="moments">moments</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="day">day</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="latest">latest</span> <span word="gossip">gossip</span>, <span word="laughter">laughter</span>), <span word="and">and</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="create">create</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="ones">ones</span>.</p><p><span word="Day">Day</span> 7: <span word="You">You</span> <span word="agree">agree</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="buy">buy</span> <span word="anything">anything</span> -- <span word="swings">swings</span>, <span word="bassinets">bassinets</span>, <span word="rockers">rockers</span> -- <span word="that">that</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="baby">baby</span> <span word="sleep">sleep</span> <span word="easier">easier</span>. <span word="Most">Most</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="won">won</span>'<span word="t">t</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="fine">fine</span> <span word="folks">folks</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Babies">Babies</span> '<span word="R">R</span>' <span word="Us">Us</span> <span word="return">return</span> <span word="counter">counter</span> <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="understanding">understanding</span>.</p><p><span word="Day">Day</span> 10: <span word="Outside">Outside</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="work">work</span>, <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="subject">subject</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="interruption">interruption</span>. <span word="Finishing">Finishing</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="meal">meal</span>, <span word="seeing">seeing</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="movie">movie</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="door">door</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="unexpected">unexpected</span> <span word="triumph">triumph</span>.</p>
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