如何让自己的性格变得越来越好
<p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="years">years</span> <span word="ago">ago</span>, <span word="Brandon">Brandon</span> <span word="Green">Green</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="sitting">sitting</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="couch">couch</span>, <span word="brooding">brooding</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="small">small</span> <span word="mistake">mistake</span> <span word="he">he</span>'<span word="d">d</span> <span word="made">made</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="consequences">consequences</span>. <span word="His">His</span> <span word="roommate">roommate</span> <span word="walked">walked</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="began">began</span> <span word="telling">telling</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="funny">funny</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="happened">happened</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="day">day</span>. <span word="Mr">Mr</span>. <span word="Green">Green</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="chuckle">chuckle</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="smile">smile</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="scowled">scowled</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="nothing">nothing</span>.</p><p>几年前的一天，布兰登·格林(<span word="Brandon">Brandon</span> <span word="Green">Green</span>)坐在沙发上，琢磨着他在工作中犯的一个小错和可能酿成的后果。这时格林的室友走进来，开始跟他讲那天他遇到的趣事。但格林并没有笑出声来，甚至连微笑也没有。他只是皱着眉头，一言不发。</p><p><span word="That">That</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="roommate">roommate</span> <span word="offered">offered</span> <span word="Mr">Mr</span>. <span word="Green">Green</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="valuable">valuable</span> <span word="analysis">analysis</span>: '<span word="Never">Never</span> <span word="mind">mind</span>,' <span word="he">he</span> <span word="said">said</span>. '<span word="You">You</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="person">person</span>.'</p><p><span word="Rachel">Rachel</span> <span word="Aranda">Aranda</span> 格林当时格林的室友对他做了一番很有价值的分析。他说：“没关系，你不笑只是因为你不是一个快乐的人。”</p><p>'<span word="Something">Something</span> <span word="happened">happened</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="moment">moment</span>,' <span word="says">says</span> <span word="Mr">Mr</span>. <span word="Green">Green</span>, <span word="a">a</span> 29-<span word="year">year</span>-<span word="old">old</span> <span word="Web">Web</span> <span word="analyst">analyst</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="Los">Los</span> <span word="Angeles">Angeles</span>. '<span word="I">I</span> <span word="realized">realized</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="continue">continue</span> <span word="blaming">blaming</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span>, <span word="as">as</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="been">been</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="different">different</span>.'</p><p>29岁的格林来自洛杉矶，是一名网络分析师，他说：“当时我悟到了些什么。我意识到自己可以继续像从前那样怨天尤人，也可以尝试做些改变。”</p><p><span word="Is">Is</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="possible">possible</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="significantly">significantly</span> <span word="alter">alter</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="personality">personality</span>? <span word="Experts">Experts</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> -- <span word="but">but</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="easy">easy</span>.</p><p>人的性格有没有可能明显改变？专家说可以——只是很难。</p>
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