世界不欠你：你才能掌控自己的人生
<p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="living">living</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="daily">daily</span> <span word="lives">lives</span>, <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="blame">blame</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="problems">problems</span>.<span word="While">While</span> <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="true">true</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="outside">outside</span> <span word="world">world</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="control">control</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="biggest">biggest</span> <span word="difference">difference</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="simply">simply</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="reaction">reaction</span> <span word="towards">towards</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="Having">Having</span> <span word="understood">understood</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="while">while</span>, <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="question">question</span>, “<span word="How">How</span>?”</p><p>日常生活中，我们常常容易把问题归咎于外部原因。虽然我们的确无法控制外界一些事情，但人与人之间最大的区别是他们对事情的反应。明白这个道理一段时间后，我经常问：“怎么做呢？”</p><p><span word="How">How</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="possible">possible</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="reaction">reaction</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="particular">particular</span> <span word="event">event</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="situation">situation</span>?</p><p>怎么做才能改变你对某件事或某个情况的反应呢？</p><p><span word="Why">Why</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="stop">stop</span> <span word="complaining">complaining</span>? <span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="three">three</span> <span word="reasons">reasons</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="believe">believe</span>—<span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="truly">truly</span> <span word="understand">understand</span> <span word="them">them</span>—<span word="will">will</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="move">move</span> <span word="forward">forward</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="live">live</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="less">less</span> <span word="stressful">stressful</span> <span word="life">life</span>:</p><p>为什么你应该停止抱怨？这里有三个我相信的原因——如果你能真正理解它们的话——会帮你进步，生活压力也会变小：</p><p>1. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="world">world</span> <span word="owes">owes</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="nothing">nothing</span></p><p>1. 世界不欠你什么</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="world">world</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="nothing">nothing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="anyone">anyone</span> <span word="else">else</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="planet">planet</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="continue">continue</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="exist">exist</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="which">which</span>—<span word="as">as</span> <span word="depressing">depressing</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="sounds">sounds</span>—<span word="should">should</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="provide">provide</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="glimpse">glimpse</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="reality">reality</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="truly">truly</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="about">about</span>.</p><p>世界真的与你或任何人无关。地球没你还是会转——这听起来令人沮丧——还会让你首先看到生活的现实。</p>
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