中国剩女: 在传统与变革中艰难寻爱
<p><span word="Xu">Xu</span> <span word="Jiajie">Jiajie</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="gone">gone</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="countless">countless</span> <span word="blind">blind</span> <span word="dates">dates</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="numerous">numerous</span> <span word="match">match</span>-<span word="making">making</span> <span word="events">events</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="past">past</span> <span word="five">five</span> <span word="years">years</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="search">search</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="husband">husband</span>.</p><p>在过去5年中，许佳洁（音译）为找到好一位丈夫参加了无数次相亲和婚恋活动。</p><p><span word="At">At</span> 31, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="baby">baby</span>-<span word="faced">faced</span> <span word="office">office</span> <span word="worker">worker</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="Shanghai">Shanghai</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="under">under</span> <span word="enormous">enormous</span> <span word="pressure">pressure</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="married">married</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="man">man</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="find">find</span>, <span word="she">she</span> <span word="says">says</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="big">big</span> <span word="issue">issue</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="urban">urban</span>, <span word="educated">educated</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="well">well</span>-<span word="paid">paid</span> <span word="Chinese">Chinese</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="society">society</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="husband">husband</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="status">status</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="traditionally">traditionally</span> <span word="above">above</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="wife">wife</span>'<span word="s">s</span>.</p><p>这位来自上海的上班族虽然已经31岁，却还是一张娃娃脸。谈到结婚问题，她表示正处于亲友的巨大压力之下。但许小姐说，传统的中国家庭中，丈夫的社会地位要高于妻子。对于高教育程度、高收入的城市女性来说，找到合适的男人实在太难了。</p><p>"<span word="My">My</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="introduced">introduced</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="bachelor">bachelor</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="know">know</span>," <span word="said">said</span> <span word="Xu">Xu</span>, <span word="who">who</span> <span word="earns">earns</span> <span word="double">double</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="average">average</span> <span word="wage">wage</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="Shanghai">Shanghai</span>. "<span word="Half">Half</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="bachelors">bachelors</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="met">met</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="quiet">quiet</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="go">go</span> <span word="out">out</span>. <span word="Outgoing">Outgoing</span> <span word="men">men</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="blind">blind</span> <span word="dates">dates</span>."</p><p>许小姐的工资是上海市民平均收入的两倍，她说：“我的父母把他们认识的单身男子全都介绍给我，但在我见过面的单身汉中，有一半人十分内向，很少出门。常出门聚会的人不需要相亲。”</p><p><span word="As">As</span> <span word="couples">couples</span> <span word="celebrate">celebrate</span> <span word="the">the</span> "<span word="Qixi">Qixi</span>" <span word="festival">festival</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="Tuesday">Tuesday</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Chinese">Chinese</span> <span word="equivalent">equivalent</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Valentine">Valentine</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="Day">Day</span>, <span word="Xu">Xu</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="millions">millions</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="face">face</span> <span word="stark">stark</span> <span word="choices">choices</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="long">long</span>-<span word="held">held</span> <span word="ideas">ideas</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="matrimonial">matrimonial</span> <span word="hierarchy">hierarchy</span> <span word="run">run</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="against">against</span> <span word="economic">economic</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="changes">changes</span> <span word="sweeping">sweeping</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="populous">populous</span> <span word="country">country</span>.</p>
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