关于幸福的8个传说 你都信吗？
<p><span word="Decades">Decades</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="research">research</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="science">science</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span> <span word="shows">shows</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="there">there</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="big">big</span>—<span word="and">and</span> <span word="potentially">potentially</span> <span word="life">life</span>-<span word="altering">altering</span>—<span word="difference">difference</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="do">do</span>, <span word="argues">argues</span> <span word="University">University</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="California">California</span>, <span word="Riverside">Riverside</span> <span word="psychology">psychology</span> <span word="professor">professor</span> <span word="Sonja">Sonja</span> <span word="Lyubomirsky">Lyubomirsky</span>, <span word="PhD">PhD</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="fascinating">fascinating</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="book">book</span> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Myths">Myths</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Happiness">Happiness</span>.</p><p>加利福利亚大学教授 <span word="Sonja">Sonja</span> <span word="Lyubomirsky">Lyubomirsky</span>在她的新书《幸福的传说》中指出，根据长期关于幸福的科学研究发现，在你觉得可以让你幸福和实际让你幸福的事物之间有着巨大差异，这样的差异有可能改变你的生活。</p><p><span word="Myth">Myth</span>: <span word="The">The</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="provide">provide</span> <span word="endless">endless</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span>.</p><p>传说：正确的婚姻会带来无尽的幸福</p><p><span word="Science">Science</span> <span word="says">says</span>: <span word="The">The</span> <span word="average">average</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="picks">picks</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sizeable">sizeable</span> <span word="boost">boost</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="gets">gets</span> <span word="married">married</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="lasts">lasts</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="years">years</span>. <span word="After">After</span> <span word="that">that</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="former">former</span> <span word="newlywed">newlywed</span> <span word="reverts">reverts</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span> <span word="level">level</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="engagement">engagement</span>.</p><p>科学表明：一般人在结婚时的幸福感会爆棚，但这只会持续2年左右。只会，新婚夫妇的幸福水准就会将回到结婚之前的水平。</p><p><span word="Boost">Boost</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="bliss">bliss</span>: <span word="Delight">Delight</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="news">news</span>. <span word="According">According</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="Lyubomirsky">Lyubomirsky</span>, “<span word="the">the</span> <span word="closest">closest</span>, <span word="most">most</span> <span word="intimate">intimate</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="trusting">trusting</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="appear">appear</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="distinguished">distinguished</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="partners">partners</span> <span word="respond">respond</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="disappointments">disappointments</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="react">react</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="news">news</span>.” <span word="When">When</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="husband">husband</span> <span word="shares">shares</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="he">he</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="promoted">promoted</span>, <span word="reacting">reacting</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="joy">joy</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="asking">asking</span> <span word="enthusiastic">enthusiastic</span> <span word="questions">questions</span> <span word="signals">signals</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="care">care</span>. <span word="Being">Being</span> <span word="silently">silently</span> <span word="supportive">supportive</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="pointing">pointing</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="downsides">downsides</span> (“<span word="Oh">Oh</span>, <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="weekends">weekends</span>?”) <span word="undermines">undermines</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span>.</p>
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