实用社交课堂：9个招人嫌的交际习惯你有吗？
<p><span word="For">For</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="reason">reason</span> <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="aware">aware</span> <span word="lately">lately</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="annoying">annoying</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="habits">habits</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span>. <span word="Worse">Worse</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="that">that</span>, <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="noticing">noticing</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="behaviors">behaviors</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="myself">myself</span>. <span word="Cutting">Cutting</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="negative">negative</span> <span word="habits">habits</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="simpler">simpler</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="foster">foster</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="heart">heart</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="productive">productive</span> <span word="communication">communication</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="today">today</span>?</p><p>最近我突然注意到别人一些讨厌的交际习惯，而有些习惯我自己也有。只有改掉这些不良习惯，我们才能有效沟通、培养有益的人际关系。那么还等什么呢？</p><p>1. <span word="Seeking">Seeking</span> <span word="attention">attention</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="complaining">complaining</span>.</p><p>通过抱怨寻求关注</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="spoke">spoke</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="yesterday">yesterday</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="refused">refused</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="positive">positive</span> <span word="aspects">aspects</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="life">life</span>. <span word="After">After</span> <span word="listening">listening</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="troubles">troubles</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="cool">cool</span> <span word="projects">projects</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="on">on</span>. <span word="Within">Within</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="sentences">sentences</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="complaining">complaining</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="trivial">trivial</span> <span word="things">things</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="share">share</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="troubles">troubles</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="strangers">strangers</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="fall">fall</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="habit">habit</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="turning">turning</span> <span word="conversations">conversations</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="dumping">dumping</span> <span word="ground">ground</span> 100 <span word="percent">percent</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span>. <span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="attention">attention</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="poor">poor</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="it">it</span>; <span word="and">and</span> <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="poor">poor</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="view">view</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span>.</p><p>昨天我遇到几个人，满腹都是对生活的牢骚。听了抱怨后，我问他们最近有没有比较好的事情，结果应付两句后，他们又开始了鸡毛蒜皮的抱怨。当然，人都需要偶尔跟他人说说自己的烦恼，但绝不能因此养成抱怨的习惯，每次开口就只顾自己大诉苦水。虽然抱怨很容易赢得关注，但却是个坏习惯，容易使人消极看待人生。</p>
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