破解魅力密码：那些魅力超凡的人都有哪些习惯
<p><span word="Some">Some</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="instantly">instantly</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="important">important</span>. <span word="Some">Some</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="instantly">instantly</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="special">special</span>. <span word="Some">Some</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="light">light</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="room">room</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="walking">walking</span> <span word="in">in</span>.</p><p>有些人总能令人感到他们很重要。有些人总能令人感到他们很特别。有些人仅仅走进房间就能让整个房间都充满欢乐。</p><p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="can">can</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="define">define</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="it">it</span>: <span word="They">They</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="naturally">naturally</span> <span word="charismatic">charismatic</span>.</p><p>我们很难解释，但有些人就是这样：他们天生就充满魅力。</p><p><span word="Unfortunately">Unfortunately</span>, <span word="natural">natural</span> <span word="charisma">charisma</span> <span word="quickly">quickly</span> <span word="loses">loses</span> <span word="its">its</span> <span word="impact">impact</span>. <span word="Familiarity">Familiarity</span> <span word="breeds">breeds</span>, <span word="well">well</span>, <span word="familiarity">familiarity</span>.</p><p>很不幸，天生的魅力会很快就失去影响。熟悉总是会造成，唔，熟悉。</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="remarkably">remarkably</span> <span word="charismatic">charismatic</span>: <span word="They">They</span> <span word="build">build</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="maintain">maintain</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span>, <span word="consistently">consistently</span> <span word="influence">influence</span> (<span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="way">way</span>) <span word="the">the</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="them">them</span>, <span word="consistently">consistently</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span>--<span word="they">they</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span> <span word="wants">wants</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="around">around</span>...<span word="and">and</span> <span word="wants">wants</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span>.</p><p>不过有些人非常富有魅力：他们能建立并维持很好的人际关系、总能影响身边的人（正面影响）、总能让别人自我感觉更好——他们是那种人人都想和他们在一起……而且人人都想成为的那种人。</p><p><span word="Fortunately">Fortunately</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span>, <span word="because">because</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="remarkably">remarkably</span> <span word="charismatic">charismatic</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="level">level</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="success">success</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="presentation">presentation</span> <span word="skills">skills</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="dress">dress</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="image">image</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="project">project</span>--<span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="do">do</span>.</p><p>所幸的是我们可以成为那样的人，因为构成超凡魅力的并不是我们的成功程度、演讲能力又或是我们的穿着或外表——而是我们的所作所为。</p>
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