这些迹象表明你们的恋情并不开心
<p><span word="Signs">Signs</span> <span word="You">You</span> <span word="Might">Might</span> <span word="Be">Be</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="Unhappy">Unhappy</span> <span word="Relationship">Relationship</span></p><p>这些迹象表明你们的恋情并不开心</p><p>1. <span word="There">There</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="fight">fight</span> <span word="left">left</span>.</p><p>1. 你们不再争吵。</p><p><span word="Common">Common</span> <span word="sense">sense</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="pinpoint">pinpoint</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="arguments">arguments</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="red">red</span> <span word="flag">flag</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="true">true</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="opposite">opposite</span>: "<span word="Healthy">Healthy</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="conflict">conflict</span>," <span word="says">says</span> <span word="Stephanie">Stephanie</span> <span word="Wijkstrom">Wijkstrom</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="psychotherapist">psychotherapist</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="founder">founder</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Counseling">Counseling</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Wellness">Wellness</span> <span word="Center">Center</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Pittsburgh">Pittsburgh</span>. "<span word="A">A</span> <span word="normal">normal</span> <span word="dose">dose</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="disagreement">disagreement</span> <span word="shows">shows</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="investing">investing</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>."</p><p>常识告诉你：争吵太多表明你们的恋情出现了问题。即便这可能是事实，但反过来也是如此：“争吵是健康恋情的一部分，”匹兹堡咨询与健康中心的心理治疗师兼创始人史蒂芬妮·维克斯特姆（<span word="Stephanie">Stephanie</span> <span word="Wijkstrom">Wijkstrom</span>）说道。“正常的纠纷表明你对这段感情投入了时间和精力。”</p><p><span word="Without">Without</span> <span word="that">that</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="emotional">emotional</span> <span word="climate">climate</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="stagnant">stagnant</span>. "<span word="When">When</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="couple">couple</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="bickering">bickering</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="disagreeing">disagreeing</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="all">all</span>, <span word="that">that</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sign">sign</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="members">members</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="couple">couple</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="given">given</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="hopeless">hopeless</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="impact">impact</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="chances">chances</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="changing">changing</span>," <span word="says">says</span> <span word="Lyons">Lyons</span>.</p><p>若完全没有争吵，你们的恋情就会停滞不前。“当情侣不再争吵或不再出现分歧，这或许表明双方已不抱希望，觉得自己无法对另一半产生影响，无法改变这段感情，”里昂（<span word="Lyons">Lyons</span>）说道。</p>
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