好朋友坏朋友：6招识破“自私”的朋友
<p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="torture">torture</span>, <span word="then">then</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="selfish">selfish</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="wasting">wasting</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="ton">ton</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="biggest">biggest</span> <span word="source">source</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="demotivation">demotivation</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="remorse">remorse</span>, <span word="then">then</span> <span word="stick">stick</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="selfish">selfish</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>. <span word="Having">Having</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="pouring">pouring</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="emotional">emotional</span> <span word="investment">investment</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="black">black</span> <span word="hole">hole</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="expecting">expecting</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="back">back</span>.</p><p>要是你喜欢自虐，那就跟自私自利的人为伍吧。要是你宁愿浪费大把时间、宁愿扎进消极悲观与自悲自叹的人堆里，那么跟这些人做朋友就好比把爱心与感情无节制地投进一个黑洞，却又期望对方能给予你同样的回报。</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="live">live</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="life">life</span>, <span word="then">then</span> <span word="stay">stay</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="folks">folks</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="hardest">hardest</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hide">hide</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="nice">nice</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="interesting">interesting</span> <span word="personalities">personalities</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="article">article</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="spot">spot</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="invest">invest</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="friendships">friendships</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="hurt">hurt</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="disappoint">disappoint</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="six">six</span> <span word="signs">signs</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="dealing">dealing</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="take">take</span>-<span word="all">all</span> <span word="selfish">selfish</span> <span word="friend">friend</span>…</p><p>如果你希望自己的生活积极向上，那就请远离消极的人。最难的是，这些人懂得如何将自己伪装得善良而风趣。所以，这篇文章就告诉你如何识别这种人，以免自己跟他们做了朋友后反倒落得失望与受伤。</p><p><span word="Sign">Sign</span> 1 – <span word="They">They</span> <span word="Think">Think</span> <span word="They">They</span> <span word="Deserve">Deserve</span> <span word="Special">Special</span> <span word="Treatment">Treatment</span></p><p>特征1：他们自认为理应受到特殊礼遇</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="selfish">selfish</span> <span word="friend">friend</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="wanna">wanna</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="involved">involved</span> <span word="with">with</span>, <span word="thinks">thinks</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="special">special</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="deserve">deserve</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="treated">treated</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="special">special</span> <span word="way">way</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="favors">favors</span>, <span word="big">big</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="small">small</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="starting">starting</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="them">them</span>.</p>
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