实用社交课堂：11种方式做一个主动倾听的人
<p><span word="Listening">Listening</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="arguably">arguably</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="element">element</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="interpersonal">interpersonal</span> <span word="communication">communication</span>. <span word="Our">Our</span> <span word="ability">ability</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="listen">listen</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="impacts">impacts</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="quality">quality</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="home">home</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>—<span word="it">it</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="affect">affect</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="interactions">interactions</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="job">job</span>, <span word="as">as</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="effectiveness">effectiveness</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="quality">quality</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="work">work</span>.</p><p>倾听可以说是人际交往中最重要的因素。我们倾听的能力影响了我们人际关系的好坏，不只是和我们的家人朋友的关系——它也会影响我们在工作中的关系和相互作用，而且也会影响到我们工作的效率和质量。</p><p><span word="Listening">Listening</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="naturally">naturally</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="easily">easily</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="us">us</span>, <span word="however">however</span>; <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="skill">skill</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="must">must</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="cultivated">cultivated</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="practiced">practiced</span>. <span word="Active">Active</span> <span word="listening">listening</span> <span word="means">means</span>, <span word="as">as</span> <span word="its">its</span> <span word="name">name</span> <span word="suggests">suggests</span>, <span word="means">means</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="conscious">conscious</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="concerted">concerted</span> <span word="effort">effort</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="fully">fully</span> <span word="engage">engage</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="speaker">speaker</span>. <span word="Active">Active</span> <span word="listening">listening</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="difference">difference</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="simply">simply</span> <span word="hearing">hearing</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="listening">listening</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="intent">intent</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="truly">truly</span> <span word="understand">understand</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="subtle">subtle</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="distinction">distinction</span>.</p><p>对于我们大部分人来说，倾听并不是自然和简单的事，然而它是一个我们必须加以训练的技能。主动倾听，顾名思义，表示我们与讲话的人做出了有意识的和协调一致的努力。积极倾听不同于简单的听见，而且有目的的倾听才能去理解。这是一种微妙但是重要的区别。</p><p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="Few">Few</span> <span word="Active">Active</span> <span word="Listening">Listening</span> <span word="Guidelines">Guidelines</span></p><p>几条主动倾听的指南：</p>
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