趋势:看网络是怎样毁掉约会的
<p>从陌陌到微信，网络时代的社交媒体层出不穷，约会变得前所未有的容易。然而，社交媒体也彻底地毁掉了约会。人们不仅能够像浏览商品目录一样对潜在的约会对象挑挑拣拣，还能通过网络提前掌握他们的情报。神秘和浪漫不见了。真爱也更难求了。因为大家总觉得，未来还能找到更好的。</p><p><span word="Online">Online</span> <span word="services">services</span> <span word="enable">enable</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="downright">downright</span> <span word="Seinfeld">Seinfeld</span>-<span word="ian">ian</span> <span word="level">level</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="superficial">superficial</span> <span word="nitpickiness">nitpickiness</span>.</p><p>在线服务导致了完完全全宋飞正传式（<span word="Seinfeld">Seinfeld</span>，美国著名喜剧演员，代表作品《宋飞正传》风靡美国9年——译注）的、肤浅的吹毛求疵。</p><p><span word="It">It</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="iconic">iconic</span> '80<span word="s">s</span> <span word="rocker">rocker</span> <span word="singer">singer</span> <span word="Pat">Pat</span> <span word="Benatar">Benatar</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="popularized">popularized</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="phrase">phrase</span> "<span word="love">love</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="battlefield">battlefield</span>." <span word="But">But</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ubiquity">ubiquity</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="mobile">mobile</span> <span word="Internet">Internet</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="realized">realized</span> <span word="it">it</span>.</p><p>20世纪80年代标志性的摇滚乐手佩特?班纳塔让“爱情就像战场”（<span word="love">love</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="battlefield">battlefield</span>）这个说法家喻户晓。而移动互联网的普及则让这个说法成为了现实。</p><p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="weeks">weeks</span> <span word="ago">ago</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="coffee">coffee</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="twenty">twenty</span>-<span word="something">something</span> <span word="entrepreneur">entrepreneur</span>. <span word="One">One</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="topics">topics</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="came">came</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="age">age</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Facebook">Facebook</span> (<span word="FB">FB</span>), <span word="OkCupid">OkCupid</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="myriad">myriad</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="digital">digital</span> <span word="services">services</span> <span word="floating">floating</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="there">there</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="handsome">handsome</span>, <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="assured">assured</span> <span word="guy">guy</span>, <span word="he">he</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="online">online</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="made">made</span> <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="harder">harder</span> <span word="and">and</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="least">least</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="case">case</span>, <span word="impossible">impossible</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="cute">cute</span> <span word="girl">girl</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="party">party</span>, <span word="she">she</span> <span word="Facebook">Facebook</span> <span word="friended">friended</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="date">date</span> -- <span word="not">not</span> <span word="uncommon">uncommon</span> -- <span word="and">and</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="accepted">accepted</span>.</p>
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