送同事体面好礼:不差钱,只讲心
<p>1. <span word="Say">Say</span> “<span word="thank">thank</span> <span word="you">you</span>.” <span word="Expressing">Expressing</span> <span word="gratitude">gratitude</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="appreciated">appreciated</span>. <span word="That">That</span> <span word="makes">makes</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="future">future</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="count">count</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="win">win</span>-<span word="win">win</span>. <span word="So">So</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="New">New</span> <span word="Year">Year</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="resolution">resolution</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="actively">actively</span> <span word="thank">thank</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="done">done</span> – <span word="no">no</span> <span word="matter">matter</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="busy">busy</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span>.</p><p>1. 说“谢谢”。向他人为我们做的事表达感谢会让他们觉得被欣赏。这让他们在将来更愿意帮我们，成为我们的依靠。这是双赢的局面。所以不管你有多忙，也要在新年许下“积极感谢别人完成工作”的愿望。</p><p>2. <span word="Give">Give</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="compliments">compliments</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="compliment">compliment</span> <span word="others">others</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="build">build</span> <span word="rapport">rapport</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="create">create</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="meaningful">meaningful</span> <span word="connection">connection</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="won">won</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="effect">effect</span> <span word="unless">unless</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="genuine">genuine</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="jealous">jealous</span>, <span word="for">for</span> <span word="example">example</span>, <span word="our">our</span> <span word="compliments">compliments</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="fall">fall</span> <span word="flat">flat</span>. <span word="Others">Others</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="notice">notice</span>, <span word="through">through</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="non">non</span>-<span word="verbal">verbal</span> <span word="communication">communication</span> (<span word="such">such</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="fake">fake</span> <span word="smile">smile</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="lack">lack</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="eye">eye</span> <span word="contact">contact</span>). <span word="Remember">Remember</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="elevating">elevating</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="mean">mean</span> <span word="bringing">bringing</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span> <span word="down">down</span>–<span word="whether">whether</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="team">team</span>.</p><p>2. 表达赞美。当我们赞扬别人时，可以和他们建立融洽的关系和有用的联系。但切记，除非出自真心实意，不然是不会起效的。比如我们实际上很嫉妒，那赞美就达不到预期效果。别人也会通过你的非语言信号注意到（比如假笑或缺少眼神交流）你是否在真诚地表达赞美。要记住鼓舞别人并不是贬低自己——不管你们是否在同一团队中工作。</p>
页:
[1]