细数当下小幸福:三个方法重拾对生活的热情
<p><span word="You">You</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="probably">probably</span> <span word="heard">heard</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="old">old</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> “<span word="The">The</span> <span word="grass">grass</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="greener">greener</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="side">side</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="fence">fence</span>.”</p><p>你肯定听过这样一句谚语：“篱笆外的草总是分外绿”，别人的似乎总比我们好。</p><p><span word="Perhaps">Perhaps</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="true">true</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="lives">lives</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="envy">envy</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="doing">doing</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="They">They</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="job">job</span>. <span word="Lots">Lots</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="money">money</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="home">home</span> <span word="life">life</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="all">all</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="wishing">wishing</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="did">did</span>, <span word="too">too</span>.</p><p>也许你觉得这句话是对的，你会羡慕嫉妒别人的生活，觉得他们什么都比你做得好：体面的工作、丰厚的收入、幸福的家庭，他们好像什么都有了。所以你忍不住希望：要是自己也能拥有这些就好了。</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="none">none</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="live">live</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="else">else</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="life">life</span>. <span word="No">No</span>-<span word="one">one</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="perfect">perfect</span> – <span word="whatever">whatever</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="looks">looks</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="outside">outside</span>.</p><p>但我们从来无从知晓，如果让我们去过别人的生活会是什么样子。也许从外面看来很美好，但没有人的生活是完美无缺的。</p><p><span word="Plus">Plus</span>, <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="safe">safe</span> <span word="bet">bet</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="thinking">thinking</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="similar">similar</span> <span word="things">things</span>. <span word="Whatever">Whatever</span> <span word="state">state</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="in">in</span>, <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="things">things</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="recognize">recognize</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="again">again</span>.</p><p>而且我完全可以肯定，有一些你的朋友也和你一样，看着你的生活想着类似的事情。其实不管你现在的生活状态如何，你都已经拥有了很多美好的事情，你只需要重新认识自己的生活。</p>
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