生活中总会遇到的7种讨厌的人
<p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="judge">judge</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="poorly">poorly</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="sincerely">sincerely</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="EVERY">EVERY</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="possesses">possesses</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="least">least</span> 3 <span word="wonderful">wonderful</span> <span word="qualities">qualities</span>.</p><p>我不喜欢评价别人或者说别人的坏话，我由衷地相信，每个人都至少具有3条极佳的品质。</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="game">game</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="sometimes">sometimes</span> <span word="play">play</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="frustrated">frustrated</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="someone">someone</span>. <span word="While">While</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="huffing">huffing</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="puffing">puffing</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="find">find</span> 3 <span word="positive">positive</span> <span word="qualities">qualities</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span>, <span word="who">who</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="pushed">pushed</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="buttons">buttons</span>. <span word="Not">Not</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="task">task</span>, <span word="but">but</span> 3 <span word="good">good</span> <span word="qualities">qualities</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="realistic">realistic</span> <span word="number">number</span>.</p><p>实际上，这是当我确认因某人而抓狂时有时会做的一个游戏。当我要大发雷霆时，我努力去寻找惹我生气的这个人的3条积极的品质。这并不总是一件容易的事，但是3条好品质的确是现实存在的。</p><p><span word="So">So</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="we">we</span>… <span word="Oh">Oh</span>, <span word="yes">yes</span> – <span word="people">people</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="harder">harder</span>. <span word="Not">Not</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="people">people</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="certain">certain</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="demotivate">demotivate</span> <span word="us">us</span>, <span word="hurt">hurt</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="rub">rub</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="ego">ego</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="way">way</span>. <span word="Ultimately">Ultimately</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="problem">problem</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="ours">ours</span>.</p><p>好吧，我们说到哪里了……哦，对，生活中令我们抓狂的人。这不是因为他们是坏人，而是因为他们做的某些事可能会让我们失去动力、伤害我们的感情或者磨灭了我们的自我意识。归根结底，这不是他们的问题，而是我们自己的问题。</p><p><span word="So">So</span> <span word="here">here</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="avoid">avoid</span> <span word="unnecessary">unnecessary</span> <span word="conflicts">conflicts</span>, <span word="stress">stress</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span>.</p>
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